You might think that learning how to find a girlfriend is tough to pull off, but it’s actually easy once you have the fundamentals sorted out.
I mean, lots of single guys out there are probably in search of a relationship to enrich their lives, but have no idea how to go about it.
Well then, let’s get right down to it shall we?
First, you’ll need to get the most basic stuff down pat. Start with the external aspects, such as good style, grooming and hygiene.
I’m sure you already have an idea about these things, but let me elaborate for just a bit.
Ok, so you gotta realize that this isn’t about being a perfectionist or vain – it’s simply to show women that you’re mature enough to look your best since you’re so interested to meet them!
Everyone has their good side, so it’s only right that you play up yours to the best you can. Women like guys who pay attention to the small details, so your efforts in this regard will definitely be noticed.
So, get a buddy to help you do an overall “style assessment” – be it clothes, fitness-wise, or hygiene-related. Getting an honest opinion from a third party really helps bring to light stuff you need to work on.
(Not to mention get some much-needed advice on how to find a girlfriend!)
Remember that EVERYONE has stuff to sort out, so don’t feel bad for wanting to improve yourself.
There’s also the matter of attitude. For instance, self-confidence should be on your to-do list as well. Granted that’s not the easiest thing to nail down, you can start with the right mindset.
Wrap your brain around this little truth: there are so many women roaming this Earth that you wouldn’t be able to meet all of them if you wanted to!
That means there will always be opportunities to try and try again until you get it right (well, not too long I hope!). By that logic, you really don’t have any reason to place too much of an emotional investment on one given attempt.
If she brushes you off, wouldn’t you be able to try again tomorrow? Is it the end of your life as you know it?
Of course not; there will always be another chance to get it right…or learn from your previous experience at the very least.
By the way, you might wanna consider your life’s direction as well. A guy who spends all his time looking for girls won’t have much of a life, and this is unattractive.
Clearly, this is NOT how to find a girlfriend.
Instead, work on building a life that’s full of excitement, interest, and more importantly, PASSION.
Women love nothing more than a guy who’s passionate about doing worthwhile stuff, so try beefing up this area as well. Get into whatever hobbies, interests and causes which truly appeal to you.
That way, you’re naturally putting yourself in groups of friends who’ll eventually lead you to potential lovers and such. The bigger your social circle is, the easier it’ll be to find a date.
At the end of the day, you’re more likely to run into (and ATTRACT) someone when you focus on being a better person inside AND out!