Killer Dating Strategies

Some of the most effective dating tips for men revolve around very basic stuff about generating attraction – or in some cases, doing the opposite.

While there’s a lot we can do to win a girl over, there are also plenty of behaviors that will turn her off.

For instance, lots of guys fall into the trap of befriending a woman in the hopes that things will take a romantic turn somewhere down the line.

BIG mistake.

The funny thing about a lot of women is that they have the tendency to quickly classify men either as a harmless, platonic friend…

…or the type of guy that’ll make her think, “Hmm, maybe this could lead somewhere…”

Of course, you know which category you want to fall under.  That’s why you’ll need to set the stage by creating an air of romantic tension right from the very start.

While being a nice guy isn’t a bad thing in itself, it also won’t help your love life either!  Being the one she can talk to her problems about or helping her sort out her issues isn’t the path to romance.

Sure, she’ll see you as a friend, but that’s an entirely separate entity from “potential lover”.  I’m not saying you should be crass about showing romantic interest; all you really need to do is get a woman’s mind in that general direction.

If not, you’re going to have a hell of a time trying to convince her otherwise.  Thus, plant little hints of romance in her thoughts instead of acting like her shrink.

Women like to test the waters with a guy by flirting with him.  Don’t assume though that it has to be sexual in nature – girls often flirt through a simple exchange of lighthearted and playful banter.

This is a very good way to get things off to a romantic start.  Be game enough to poke harmless fun at her.  It not only lowers her defenses, it also puts those “is he or isn’t he into me” kinds of thoughts in her head.

Believe me, this kind of curiosity often leads to more serious things later on!

So don’t bother trying to solve a woman’s problems under the assumption that she’ll fall in love with you later on.  She has her friends and family to help her sort that out.

As for other dating tips for men, you also want to avoid being too wound-up about a woman’s opinion of you.

You don’t want to behave like a guy who’s crushed because his date from last night didn’t return the hundreds of voicemails he left on her phone.

This is the type who flips out because she didn’t include a smiley at the end of her text message (Oh, the horror!).

Basically, he doesn’t realize the importance of backing off just a bit and letting the tension develop.

Instead, he lets his emotions get the best of him and kills the mystery with his overzealousness!  As a result, she’ll get turned off by his neediness and look elsewhere.

In the long run, it pays to play it cool instead of hovering over her like a hawk!

All in all, following these two simple dating tips for men will stack the odds in your favor.  Remember, the less unpleasant behaviors you have, the easier it’ll be to generate more attraction!