{"id":950,"date":"2017-11-06T22:02:46","date_gmt":"2017-11-06T22:02:46","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/?p=950"},"modified":"2018-06-04T21:45:37","modified_gmt":"2018-06-04T21:45:37","slug":"3-ways-to-keep-a-great-man-from-running-away","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/3-ways-to-keep-a-great-man-from-running-away\/","title":{"rendered":"3 Ways to Keep a Great Man from Running Away"},"content":{"rendered":"

By Slade Shaw
\nAuthor of Why Men Pull Away<\/em><\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n

Learn exactly what pushes men to leave…and how to NEVER feel abandoned or rejected<\/p>\n

Why Men Pull Away\u2026and What Makes Them STAY In Love<\/strong><\/a><\/h2>\n

3 Ways to Keep a Great Man from Running Away<\/h2>\n

Tell me if this has ever happened to you…<\/p>\n

You\u2019re with a man, you two have been dating a little while… and things feel amazing.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s attractive, kind… and something about the way he looks at you makes your heart just flutter.<\/p>\n

And he\u2019s so interested<\/em><\/strong> in taking things further… you\u2019re already discussing future fun things to do… maybe even some weekend trips ahead.<\/p>\n

But then… things just evaporate.<\/p>\n

Almost overnight, he is barely responding to texts.<\/p>\n

Short one or two-word answers.<\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t ask you out again.<\/p>\n

Within a week, you\u2019ve been fully ghosted<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

Why does this happen?<\/strong><\/p>\n

There\u2019s a way to turn this all around, but first you have to be very clear on what not to do.<\/p>\n

1) Don\u2019t Be Extra Nice & Chase<\/strong><\/h3>\n

If you\u2019re a kind, nurturing woman, your first instinct might be to work harder on showing him what an amazing woman you are.<\/p>\n

You might start texting him funny messages… or baking cookies.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong, men love home-baked cookies, but if it comes from a woman they\u2019re not sure about, it causes them to think things like: \u201cShe\u2019s really sweet, but…\u201d and he starts planning his escape (maybe after a couple more cookies…).<\/p>\n

Dr. John Gray talks about something called the \u201crubber band effect.\u201d<\/p>\n

Imagine a man and a woman are two moveable pegs with a long rubber band around them.<\/p>\n

When the man wanders off, the rubber band gets stretched and this creates tension… and at some point, he\u2019s propelled back to the woman and wants to spend time with her.<\/p>\n

But if you keep chasing, it creates slack in the rubber band and keeps him running away to create more space.<\/p>\n

2) Don\u2019t Play Hard to Get<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Now, it\u2019s easy enough to learn not to chase a man that\u2019s becoming distant. Once a woman realizes this, she often will say to herself \u201cOk… TWO can play this game!\u201d<\/p>\n

Then she\u2019ll start sending shorter text messages, acting less interested… and assuming he\u2019ll miss her and start chasing.<\/p>\n

This can<\/span><\/em> work at times, but you\u2019re playing with explosive dice!<\/p>\n

When you play \u2018hard to get\u2019 you run the risk of coming off cold, rude, or even flat out bitchy<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

This can make a man who was already a little unsure about you to think \u201cWell, she doesn\u2019t even seem to like me! I guess I better find a woman who does.\u201d<\/p>\n

Once you realize this, it can feel like a damned-if-you-do, damned-if-you-don\u2019t scenario… because what options are left?<\/p>\n

3) Be Very Careful With Questions About the Relationship<\/strong><\/h3>\n

When a woman realizes that chasing doesn\u2019t work… but playing hard-to-get doesn\u2019t either… she often ends up taking the most natural option left…<\/p>\n

She calls him on it<\/em><\/strong> and asks what\u2019s going on.<\/p>\n

This is the kiss of death<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

You may think, \u201cHey, men are logical, shouldn\u2019t I straight up ask him what\u2019s happening?\u201d<\/p>\n

Yes, men are logical and NO you ABSOLUTELY CANNOT ask him what\u2019s happening …unless you are absolutely sure you are asking the question in the right way.<\/p>\n

The reason for this is something called pressure<\/span>.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Most likely, the man doesn\u2019t even know<\/em><\/strong> how he\u2019s feeling inside.<\/p>\n

He knows he really likes you but is also questioning whether he\u2019s ready to commit.<\/p>\n

If you don\u2019t ask him the RIGHT question, he will likely feel like you are putting him on the spot to decide right now<\/em><\/strong>.<\/p>\n

After all, he can\u2019t just say \u201cI don\u2019t know if want to be with you yet,\u201d because that sounds too mean.<\/p>\n

That leaves him a choice between a jumping into a pre-mature commitment or running to the hills for freedom… and when the pressure is on, a man will always<\/em><\/strong> choose freedom. So MAKE SURE to be very careful with questions because asking the wrong one could be a disaster.<\/p>\n

Your One Solution:<\/strong><\/h3>\n

The secret solution is to ask special indirect<\/em><\/strong> questions… things that make his mind ponder what it would be like to commit to you<\/strong> and realize that this is the romance he\u2019s been searching for his whole life.<\/p>\n

These special Intrigue Questions<\/em><\/strong> put on ZERO<\/strong> pressure… and gently guide him into seeing you as the rightful woman of his dreams.<\/p>\n

It makes dating other women or \u201cplaying the field\u201d seem like a little kid\u2019s video game, and not something he wants anymore.<\/p>\n

He wants to be with you<\/strong>… and now<\/strong><\/span><\/em>.<\/p>\n

You can find out how to do this by clicking below:<\/p>\n

Click here for the easy step-by-step method to using \u201cIntrigue Questions\u201d to make him choose to be with you forever.<\/a><\/h2>\n

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