{"id":50,"date":"2012-10-04T23:57:09","date_gmt":"2012-10-04T23:57:09","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/?p=50"},"modified":"2018-05-26T12:34:21","modified_gmt":"2018-05-26T12:34:21","slug":"do-looks-really-matter-to-men","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/do-looks-really-matter-to-men\/","title":{"rendered":"Do Looks Really Matter to Men?"},"content":{"rendered":"

By Mirabelle Summers
\nAuthor of Get A Great Guy Guide<\/em><\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n

If you want genuine men and not just any man, this will challenge your beliefs about love and attraction, and show you the way to become a seduction success story,\u00a0<\/strong>check this out…<\/strong><\/p>\n

Free Video: Get A Great Guy Guide<\/strong><\/a><\/em><\/h3>\n

Do Looks Really Matter to Men?<\/h2>\n

Yes. Duh.<\/p>\n

But also no.<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s just go ahead and get this out of the way: There is no single, definitive answer to this question. That should ease your worries a little, and we\u2019re going to tell you why!<\/p>\n

Yes, looks DO matter\u2014especially in the beginning. Some may find it to be superficial, but think about it: When you first meet a person, what else do you have to go on besides their looks? <\/p>\n

You can\u2019t meet someone for the very first time and honestly say, \u201cGee, they have a beautiful soul.\u201d<\/p>\n

And yes, looks DO matter later on in a relationship. Why? Simple. First of all, we all know that the spark often fizzles out of a relationship when someone decides to let himself\/herself go.<\/p>\n

Anyone will tell you that if you want to keep the relationship\/romance alive, you have to make sure you look nice for your partner. That\u2019s a no-brainer.<\/p>\n

Ladies, wouldn\u2019t you get tired of seeing your man in sweatpants with dirty hair every day? Of course. You want him to take care of himself, and he would love the same thing out of you.<\/p>\n

Remember that a lot of this goes back to self-respect. If you start welcoming your husband home from work every day looking like a victim of the zombie apocalypse, he\u2019s going to wonder why (1) You don\u2019t care enough about yourself to look respectable, and (2) Why you don\u2019t care enough about him to look respectable for HIM. (And make no mistake about it: You should expect the same things in return! It\u2019s not all about the women looking pretty.)<\/p>\n

However, like many other aspects of relationships, there\u2019s a little give when it comes to appearances. Should everything that you have with your mate hinge on how you look? Absolutely not.<\/p>\n

After all, our bodies are just shells, costumes. It sounds corny and clich\u00e9, but it\u2019s true: What\u2019s on the inside is just as important.<\/p>\n

A lot of people will say that they have a certain \u201ctype\u201d: They like blondes with blue eyes, etc. All it takes is that great personality, though, and all of that will go out of the window.<\/p>\n

This is the biggest reason why you should never judge a book by its cover. Ladies, don\u2019t pass up that man that you weren\u2019t initially attracted to just because he\u2019s not tall enough or muscular enough or whatever.<\/p>\n

You were so busy judging him based solely on his appearances that you didn\u2019t realize that he has a heart of gold. He volunteers at the local animal shelter, he has a wonderful job, and he\u2019s looking for that special woman to bring into his life. Not too shabby, huh?<\/p>\n

As we said earlier, the question, \u201cDo looks really matter to men?\u201d doesn\u2019t have one, clear answer. <\/p>\n

Never, ever forget, though, that along with that self-respect we just discussed also comes the concept of respecting yourself enough to know when to walk away.<\/p>\n

If you take great care of yourself and know that you look like a million bucks, and yet you\u2019re still \u201cnot good enough\u201d for your man\u2014maybe he tells you that you\u2019re not thin enough, not busty enough\u2014tell him to take a hike so that you can start shopping around for a new lover!<\/p>\n

If you’re ready to take the plunge and learn why men pull away – Click here to watch my free video presentation…<\/strong><\/p>\n

Why Men Pull Away\u2026and What Makes Them STAY In Love (VIDEO)<\/strong><\/a><\/h2>\n

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