{"id":35,"date":"2011-10-11T02:21:15","date_gmt":"2011-10-11T02:21:15","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/?p=35"},"modified":"2018-05-29T04:15:02","modified_gmt":"2018-05-29T04:15:02","slug":"how-to-get-guys-interested-in-you","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/how-to-get-guys-interested-in-you\/","title":{"rendered":"How To Get Guys Interested In You"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>By Mirabelle Summers<br \/>\nAuthor of <a href=\"http:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/go\/getgreatgg\"><strong><em>Get A Great Guy Guide<\/em><\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n<p><strong>If you want genuine men and not just any man, this will challenge your beliefs about love and attraction, and show you the way to become a seduction success story,\u00a0<\/strong><strong>check this out&#8230;<\/strong><\/p>\n<h3 class=\"p1\"><em><a href=\"http:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/go\/getgreatgg\"><strong>Free Video: Get A Great Guy Guide<\/strong><\/a><\/em><\/h3>\n<h2>How To Get Guys Interested In You<\/h2>\n<p>If you&#8217;ve ever wondered why some women get all the dates and others come up empty, we&#8217;re here to fill you in on a simple trick to get guys looking in your direction.<\/p>\n<p>Let me start by asking you a quick question: Who says you need to wait for him to come over?<\/p>\n<p>A lot of women overlook the fact that they can take an ACTIVE role in the attraction process, especially when it comes to showing signs of interest.<\/p>\n<p>If you really like someone, there&#8217;s nothing wrong with meeting him halfway!<\/p>\n<p>(Of course, you don&#8217;t want to make it TOO EASY for him, but a little effort on your part is OK!)<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes, you don&#8217;t have to wait for a guy to be interested in you. Why not practice an attitude that says, &#8220;Come and talk to me!&#8221;?<\/p>\n<p>For all you know, that guy you like just needs a little encouragement to get the ball rolling. Don&#8217;t bother with the ice princess routine if you&#8217;re into him; drop subtle hints to get his attention.<\/p>\n<p>Here are a couple of ideas:<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; Look at him! Don&#8217;t act like a freak and stare at the guy &#8211; a few, short quick glances his way works best (for best results, add a smile!).<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; Be mindful of your facial expressions. Does your face tell guys you want them to talk to you, or is it keeping them away? A fun, playful expression on your face will increase your approachability.<\/p>\n<p>Another way to get him interested is by purposely being in his &#8220;radar&#8221;. How? Well, by walking up to him and starting a conversation, silly!<\/p>\n<p>This may sound like earth-shattering news to a lot of women out there, but quality guys appreciate a girl who makes just enough effort to be noticed.<\/p>\n<p>And by &#8220;making just enough effort&#8221;, I mean going out of your way to talk to him &#8211; but keeping the chit-chat light and casual. Let him fill his side of the conversation.<\/p>\n<p>Obviously you like him, so there&#8217;s no need to actually tell him that. Be friendly, high-energy and humorous.<\/p>\n<p>The last part is especially important. Guys are likely to be interested in a girl who isn\u2019t afraid to have a fun, light-hearted conversation and have a few laughs.<\/p>\n<p>This is what\u2019s known as FLIRTING. It doesn\u2019t have to involve double entendres or directly telling a guy how hot he is. That approach is way too HEAVY for a guy, especially in the beginning.<\/p>\n<p>Rather, it\u2019s about being playful in a good-spirited way to let him know that you don\u2019t take yourself seriously. Although you like him, don\u2019t give him the impression that your objective is to make him like you.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re just in the moment, having fun with someone without pressuring him with any expectations. Remember, a needy vibe drives men away.<\/p>\n<p>To really seal the deal, let me offer you one last bit of advice: look your best!<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t worry, I\u2019m not asking you to look perfect. All I\u2019m saying is that you should work with what you have.<\/p>\n<p>In the long run, having a great personality and attitude towards life is what really counts. But let\u2019s face it, the first stages of attraction take place on a VISUAL level.<\/p>\n<p>So, take the time to show the world that you \u201chave it together\u201d. The fact that you actually care about looking your best bears a lot more weight than meeting stereotypical standards of beauty (i.e. looking like a Photoshopped magazine cover!).<\/p>\n<p>Working out, eating right, and choosing clothes that accentuate your frame will help you as you approach guys. This is also important because on a subconscious level, it tells guys that you value yourself enough to be at your most fabulous.<\/p>\n<p>Here\u2019s a simple truth: It\u2019s your life, so you don\u2019t have to wait for something great to happen &#8211; make it happen! No one else is going to do it for you.<\/p>\n<p>Quality guys are out there, and they\u2019re not going to run out anytime soon. YOU have the power to become the woman that guys want to be around!<\/p>\n<p>If you want genuine men and not just any man, let us challenge your beliefs about love and attraction, and show you the way to become a seduction success story, check this out&#8230;<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"p1\"><em><a href=\"http:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/go\/getgreatgg\"><strong>Free Video: Get A Great Guy Guide<\/strong><\/a><\/em><\/h3>\n<p><strong>No games. No scripted lines. Real life dating advice for real women!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/go\/getgreatgg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-1207\" src=\"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/MYS-GetGreatGG.jpg\" alt=\"Get A Great Guy Guide\" width=\"933\" height=\"420\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/MYS-GetGreatGG.jpg 933w, https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/MYS-GetGreatGG-300x135.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/MYS-GetGreatGG-768x346.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 933px) 100vw, 933px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>If you&#8217;ve ever wondered why some women get all the dates and others come up empty, we&#8217;re here to fill you in on a simple trick to get guys looking in your direction.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":736,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_exactmetrics_skip_tracking":false,"_exactmetrics_sitenote_active":false,"_exactmetrics_sitenote_note":"","_exactmetrics_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[15,11,17,19,21,22],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/35"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=35"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/35\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1714,"href":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/35\/revisions\/1714"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/736"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=35"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=35"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=35"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}