{"id":2259,"date":"2019-03-20T00:15:01","date_gmt":"2019-03-20T00:15:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/?p=2259"},"modified":"2019-03-13T00:22:18","modified_gmt":"2019-03-13T00:22:18","slug":"how-to-be-the-girl-he-wants-to-date-vs-the-one-he-just-wants-to-have-sex-with","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/how-to-be-the-girl-he-wants-to-date-vs-the-one-he-just-wants-to-have-sex-with\/","title":{"rendered":"How To Be The Girl He Wants To Date Vs. The One He Just Wants To Have Sex With"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em>By Amy North<\/em><br \/>\n<em>From <a href=\"http:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/amy\">Devotion System<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n<h3><strong>If you really want to win him over and commit himself to you 100%, go on and check this out right now\u2026<\/strong><\/h3>\n<h3><a href=\"http:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/amy\"><em><strong>How To Make A Man Obsess Over You<\/strong><\/em><\/a><\/h3>\n<h2><strong>How To Be The Girl He Wants To Date Vs. The One He Just Wants To Have Sex With<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>There\u2019s a huge difference between being the girl a guy wanted to date, and one he just wants to have sex with.<\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019re looking for a relationship with a man, then knowing this difference is key.<\/p>\n<p>What&#8217;s the difference between being the girl he wants to date and being someone, he just wants to have sex with?<\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/player.vimeo.com\/video\/257996513\" width=\"640\" height=\"360\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s important to understand that when it comes to men and women, sex means very different things.<\/p>\n<p>You maybe even heard the expression, \u201cMen need to have sex to fall in love, but women need to fall in love to have sex.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>And while that\u2019s not necessarily true in every instance, it does speak volumes to how men think about sex.<\/p>\n<p>I know this sounds complicated, so I\u2019ll be sure to cover it in more detail in another video, but for the time being, let\u2019s stick to the question at hand: being datable vs. someone he just wants to sleep with.<\/p>\n<h3><strong>In order to be the girl he wants to date, you have one key thing to do and that\u2019s to show him what you have to offer him in a relationship.<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>The truth is, most single men will have sex with any woman they find at least remotely attractive and aside from looks, not much else matters.<\/p>\n<p>This means they don\u2019t worry about her confidence levels, self-respect or ambitions. They don\u2019t question what kind of partner she would be in terms of supportive or kind and don\u2019t think about the future with that person at all.<\/p>\n<p>Instead, all they think about is \u201cCan I score with this chick?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Men may try to tell you otherwise, but believe me, I\u2019ve done my fair share of research and even though some guys are shy to admit it, sometimes all they\u2019re looking for is sex.<\/p>\n<p>When it comes to choosing a woman to date however, the thought process is much more complex.<\/p>\n<p>Meaning there\u2019s a huge difference between being someone he\u2019s willing to sleep with and someone he\u2019s going to want to show off to his friends and family.<\/p>\n<p>How do you be the woman he wants to date? Well, the simple answer is to make him realize that life with you is better than life without you.<\/p>\n<p>The tricky part about doing this is that it requires balance, meaning you\u2019ll need to give him a taste of what dating you would be like, without giving him too much so he doesn\u2019t feel the need to commit to you.<\/p>\n<p>I mean, why would he if he can have you by his side keep his single lifestyle afloat.<\/p>\n<p>So, from the top.<\/p>\n<h3><strong>The first thing you\u2019re going to want to do is be a little hard to get.<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>I know this sounds counterproductive seeing as you\u2019re trying to be the girl he wants to date but hear me out for a minute.<\/p>\n<p>By giving him the chance to pursue you, you\u2019re actually feeding into his deepest desires and that\u2019s the chasing game.<\/p>\n<p>Since men are hunters at heart, when they feel they have to work to win you over, you\u2019ll become that much more valuable to him. This also speaks to why he doesn\u2019t want to date the girl he picks up at the bar and sleeps with that same night.<\/p>\n<p>The short-lived chase isn\u2019t enough to keep him hooked.<\/p>\n<h3><strong>To keep the chase alive let him be the instigator in your dynamic.<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>That\u2019s not to say you can\u2019t be at all hint that you\u2019re interested, but that when he\u2019s the one initiating plans and contacting you, you\u2019ll be giving him the kind of challenge that will get him hooked.<\/p>\n<p>Better yet, when he does come calling you can show him how full and exciting your life is by not being overly available and trust me ladies, this will make him want you even more.<\/p>\n<p>Think about it for a minute, no man or woman for that matter wants to be with someone who\u2019s boring and has nothing going on in their life.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s just setting yourself up for a clingy relationship and he knows it.<\/p>\n<p>Instead he\u2019ll have to work for your time and attention which again, makes you that much more of a prize to be won.<\/p>\n<p>This alone is giving him something that the women he\u2019s casually sleeping with aren\u2019t.<\/p>\n<p>As I mentioned earlier, it\u2019s also important that you show him what a catch you are and a busy lifestyle is only the tip of the iceberg.<\/p>\n<p>Where it really matters is how you make him feel.<\/p>\n<p>Since people want to be around those who make them feel good, if you can be the one who makes him happy in a way that other women aren\u2019t, then you\u2019re on the road to being the one he wants to date.<\/p>\n<h3><strong>Be the person who makes him laugh, or the listener he needs.<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>The one who makes him smile on a daily basis and who he can\u2019t get off his mind.<\/p>\n<p>Show him you\u2019re the kind of woman who is thoughtful and kind and the type who will support him and be on his side.<\/p>\n<p>If you can make this kind of impact on his day to day life, he\u2019ll want to keep you around.<\/p>\n<p>Of course, this can be extremely tough to pull off, especially if he\u2019s really trying to score with you. But by being your positive, outgoing self it won\u2019t take long for him to realize that if he doesn\u2019t lock you down, someone else will come along and do so.<\/p>\n<p>If you like what you learned here and wanted to know <a href=\"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/amy\"><strong>How To Make A Man Obsess Over You<\/strong><\/a>, then please watch the video below:<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/amy\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-1403\" src=\"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/MYS-DevotionPlayer.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"933\" height=\"420\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/MYS-DevotionPlayer.jpg 933w, https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/MYS-DevotionPlayer-300x135.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/MYS-DevotionPlayer-768x346.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 933px) 100vw, 933px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>By Amy North From Devotion System If you really want to win him over and commit himself to you 100%, go on and check this out right now\u2026 How To Make A Man Obsess Over&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":2549,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_exactmetrics_skip_tracking":false,"_exactmetrics_sitenote_active":false,"_exactmetrics_sitenote_note":"","_exactmetrics_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[15,11,20],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2259"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2259"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2259\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2593,"href":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2259\/revisions\/2593"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/2549"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2259"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2259"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2259"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}