{"id":2108,"date":"2018-07-19T03:06:17","date_gmt":"2018-07-19T03:06:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/?p=2108"},"modified":"2018-07-19T03:07:28","modified_gmt":"2018-07-19T03:07:28","slug":"20-questions-lightning-fast-answers-to-your-breakup-questions","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/20-questions-lightning-fast-answers-to-your-breakup-questions\/","title":{"rendered":"20 Questions: Lightning Fast Answers to Your Breakup Questions"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em>By Brad Browning<\/em><br \/>\n<em>From <a href=\"http:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/brad\">The Ex Factor Guide<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n<h3><strong>If you can&#8217;t tell for sure if you&#8217;re over analyzing your ex&#8217;s behavior, then check this out&#8230;<\/strong><br \/>\n<strong><em><a href=\"http:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/brad\">The Ex Factor Guide<\/a><\/em><\/strong><\/h3>\n<h2>20 Questions: Lightning Fast Answers to Your Breakup Questions<\/h2>\n<p>Today, we&#8217;ll answer a whole bunch of your questions in this video\u2026<\/p>\n<p>But to keep things interesting, I\u2019m going to try to answer all of them as quickly as I can, in just a few words\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Obviously, that means I\u2019ll be skipping out on a lot of important stuff in some of these answers, so for more comprehensive how-to advice please visit the <strong><a href=\"http:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/brad\">Ex Factor Guide<\/a><\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/player.vimeo.com\/video\/258152600\" width=\"640\" height=\"360\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p>These questions I\u2019m about to read were compiled over the past few weeks from your comments, emails and Facebook messages\u2026<\/p>\n<p>I won\u2019t reveal any names, I\u2019ll just try to give the best possible answer in one sentence or less.<\/p>\n<p>Let\u2019s get started.<\/p>\n<p><strong>How many people make big mistakes after a breakup and does it usually ruin their chance of getting their ex back?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Almost everyone makes at least some mistakes before they find my videos or my website, but usually, their situation is still salvageable.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Why do other people say the <a href=\"http:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/brad\">No Contact Strategy<\/a> is a bad idea?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Because they want to be controversial to generate views and sell something and because they know it appeals to many people even though it\u2019s completely wrong.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Why are you always talking about the No Contact Strategy?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Because it is a critical component of my <a href=\"http:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/brad\">3R system<\/a> and because it is necessary in most cases if you want to win back your ex.<\/p>\n<p><strong>How do I know if I should actually get back together with my ex?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s up to you to decide but generally, if you want your ex back &#8212; you miss that specific person, rather than missing just the feeling of being with someone and not being alone &#8212; then that\u2019s a strong indicator.<\/p>\n<p><strong>How often do your clients actually get back together with their ex?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Daily.<\/p>\n<p>Not everyone gets their ex back, for a variety of reasons, but many do and I see it pretty much every single day.<\/p>\n<p><strong>What\u2019s the biggest mistake people make trying to get their ex back?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>They think that they can talk their way back into their ex\u2019s heart and fail to re-build their ex\u2019s attraction in a natural, organic way.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Is it ever a good idea to contact my ex during the No Contact phase?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Only in the event of a major crisis like your ex\u2019s family member has passed away or they were accepted into NASA\u2019s astronaut program and it\u2019s usually OK to send a brief happy birthday text as well.<\/p>\n<p><strong>What if I live with my ex or have to see them daily?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I have other videos on this and it\u2019s covered extensively in my <a href=\"http:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/brad\">Ex Factor<\/a> program but basically, you need to stay positive, put on a happy face and avoid any drama.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Does being in a long-distance relationship reduce the chances of getting my ex back?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Yes.<\/p>\n<p>How much it complicates things depends on the specific details of the situation, so I encourage people in that scenario to sign up for my 1-on-1 coaching to get more personalized guidance.<\/p>\n<p><strong>How did you become a breakup expert?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m a psychology geek and have been a relationship coach for many years, basically since graduating from university\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Eventually, I had the experience and knowledge to create my <a href=\"http:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/brad\"><strong>Ex Factor<\/strong> <\/a>program, which is now in its 5th edition.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Is getting an ex back different for men and women?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>The fundamentals are the same but the strategies used often vary between genders because male and female psychology can be quite different.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Do you ever encourage people to move on and not try to get their ex back?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Oh yeah, definitely.<\/p>\n<p>Generally, it\u2019s when they\u2019ve treated like garbage by their ex.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Why do you talk about texting so much?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Well, it&#8217;s because texts (and similar messaging platforms like Facebook or WhatsApp) offer a non-threatening, non-invasive way to convey messages to your ex, which is especially helpful in the early stages of rebuilding the relationship.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Do your strategies and advice apply for same-sex couples?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Yes, almost everything I teach will work for same-sex couples\u2026<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve coached many gay and lesbian clients and 99% of the techniques I recommend will work just as well.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Should I delete my ex from social media channels like Facebook and Instagram?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>No. There\u2019s no reason to do that, you can just hide their posts from showing in your newsfeed.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Why do you do this breakup coaching stuff?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Because I get to earn a living helping people go through one of the toughest times in their life\u2026 it\u2019s rewarding, for the most part it\u2019s enjoyable and I can work from home.<\/p>\n<p>I also get to meet and talk to some really cool people from all over the world through my 1-on-1 coaching.<\/p>\n<p><strong>What\u2019s the most common question you\u2019re asked?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Probably \u201cdo I still have a chance?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Alright, I am going to end it here guys\u2026<\/p>\n<p>But, if you do have any questions still buzzing around in your head and if you want to learn the full method of how to get your ex back, watch this now&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/brad\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-1423\" src=\"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/MYS-GetYourExBoyfriend.jpg\" alt=\"Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back\" width=\"933\" height=\"420\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/MYS-GetYourExBoyfriend.jpg 933w, https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/MYS-GetYourExBoyfriend-300x135.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/MYS-GetYourExBoyfriend-768x346.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 933px) 100vw, 933px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>By Brad Browning From The Ex Factor Guide If you can&#8217;t tell for sure if you&#8217;re over analyzing your ex&#8217;s behavior, then check this out&#8230; 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