{"id":2037,"date":"2018-07-09T02:54:59","date_gmt":"2018-07-09T02:54:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/?p=2037"},"modified":"2018-07-03T02:55:36","modified_gmt":"2018-07-03T02:55:36","slug":"should-you-sleep-with-a-guy-right-away-shocking-answer","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/should-you-sleep-with-a-guy-right-away-shocking-answer\/","title":{"rendered":"Should You Sleep With A Guy Right Away (Shocking Answer)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em>By Amy North<\/em><br \/>\n<em>From <a href=\"http:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/amy\">Devotion System<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n<p>If you really want to win him over and commit himself to you 100%, go on and check this out right now\u2026<\/p>\n<h3><a href=\"http:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/amy\"><em><strong>How To Make A Man Obsess Over You<\/strong><\/em><\/a><\/h3>\n<h2><strong>Should You Sleep With A Guy Right Away (Shocking Answer)<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>Hi Everyone, it&#8217;s me again, Amy North, a relationship coach from Vancouver BC and I work with women who are looking to improve their love lives.<\/p>\n<p>In this video below, I&#8217;ll talk about something that I&#8217;m asked all the time&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><strong>Should you sleep with a guy right away?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Well, when it comes to sex especially when it&#8217;s with someone new, there are a handful of things you should first think about.<\/p>\n<p>For starters, do you want a real relationship with this man or would you be happy with a casual fling?<\/p>\n<p>The thing is having sex right away doesn\u2019t necessarily kill your chances of having a relationship but it can change the dynamic between the two of you.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s why it&#8217;s so important that you clarify what it is you were looking for beforehand if you don&#8217;t then he may think you&#8217;re just looking to have some fun.<\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/player.vimeo.com\/video\/257996766\" width=\"640\" height=\"360\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p>To get back to the question should you sleep with a guy right away?<\/p>\n<p>Unfortunately, there&#8217;s no guidebook that tells us the right time to pop between the sheets with a man. However, there are certain things you should consider.<\/p>\n<p>First is the old-fashioned notion that sleeping with someone too soon will make him lose respect for you. That&#8217;s not a one-size-fits-all reality because it does depend on the man and his personal beliefs.<\/p>\n<p>Recently, Cosmopolitan did a poll on this and discovered that 67% of men wouldn\u2019t think less of a woman for having sex on the first date, but still, the age-old debate will continue&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Men\u2019s magazines will keep coming up with guides to getting laid on the first date, and women around the world will keep wondering how soon is too soon.<\/p>\n<p>The next thing you should consider is the idea that having sex too soon could kill the chase for him. In other words, since he can have you, he won&#8217;t want you. Well, that may be true in some situations.<\/p>\n<p>The bigger question is do you want to be with someone who&#8217;s just in it for the sex anyways?<\/p>\n<p>Holding off may seem like a good idea, but what&#8217;s going to bother you more?<\/p>\n<p>If you give it time before sex and he blows you off after the fact, or if you let it happen right away and he blows you off after anyways.<\/p>\n<p>The most important thing to guard in a relationship is your heart. It\u2019s important to take into consideration how you can handle these scenarios.<\/p>\n<p>Instead of worrying about shame or losing respect, consider what it is that you \u2018re looking for before getting frisky with a fellow.<\/p>\n<p>For some women, keeping sex out of the picture while getting to know men helps them connect better with their date&#8217;s personality.<\/p>\n<p>For other women, the opposite happens because the sexual attraction gets in the way. Strange as it sounds, if you&#8217;re one of these people and having early on could actually increase your chances of building a real relationship after the fact, why?<\/p>\n<p>Because you&#8217;ll be able to focus on getting to know him without being distracted by sex.<\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019re interested in learning some helpful tips for connecting with a man check out my video below:<\/p>\n<h2><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/amy\">How To Build Your Confidence And Make Men Wild With Desire For You<\/a><\/strong><\/h2>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/amy\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-1403\" src=\"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/MYS-DevotionPlayer.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"933\" height=\"420\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/MYS-DevotionPlayer.jpg 933w, https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/MYS-DevotionPlayer-300x135.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/MYS-DevotionPlayer-768x346.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 933px) 100vw, 933px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>By Amy North From Devotion System If you really want to win him over and commit himself to you 100%, go on and check this out right now\u2026 How To Make A Man Obsess Over&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":2062,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_exactmetrics_skip_tracking":false,"_exactmetrics_sitenote_active":false,"_exactmetrics_sitenote_note":"","_exactmetrics_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[15,17,20],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2037"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2037"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2037\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2063,"href":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2037\/revisions\/2063"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/2062"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2037"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2037"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2037"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}