{"id":2031,"date":"2018-08-07T01:44:25","date_gmt":"2018-08-07T01:44:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/?p=2031"},"modified":"2018-08-01T01:54:38","modified_gmt":"2018-08-01T01:54:38","slug":"why-experts-say-no-contact-is-bad-theyre-lying-to-you","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/why-experts-say-no-contact-is-bad-theyre-lying-to-you\/","title":{"rendered":"Why &#8220;Experts&#8221; Say No Contact Is Bad (They&#8217;re LYING To You!)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em>By Brad Browning<\/em><br \/>\n<em>From <a href=\"http:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/brad\">The Ex Factor Guide<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n<h3><strong>If you can&#8217;t tell for sure if you&#8217;re over analyzing your ex&#8217;s behavior, then check this out&#8230;<\/strong><br \/>\n<strong><em><a href=\"http:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/brad\">The Ex Factor Guide<\/a><\/em><\/strong><\/h3>\n<h2>Why &#8220;Experts&#8221; Say No Contact Is Bad (They&#8217;re LYING To You!)<\/h2>\n<p>Today, we&#8217;re going to address some of the other so-called \u201cgurus\u201d criticize &#8211; my \u201cno contact\u201d strategy.<\/p>\n<p>I never felt like I had to defend this strategy\u2013 after all. However, there are a few <em>gurus<\/em> here with low-quality webcam videos that spout a number of nonsense arguments against my strategy.<\/p>\n<p>Normally, I wouldn\u2019t bother to address these videos but I occasionally get a few of my viewers who mention how my version of \u201cno contact\u201d is wrong because they\u2019ve watched some other <strong>misleading<\/strong> video.<\/p>\n<p>This obviously makes me upset, not because these videos are seemingly attacking me but because the advice that they\u2019re giving is downright incorrect.<\/p>\n<p>And the only reason these gurus want to discredit my strategy is to stir up some controversy to get views on their channel.<\/p>\n<p>But as you\u2019ll soon realize, the amount of hate comments and dislikes these videos get,\u00a0serve as some level of proof that these imposters are simply trying to get their 15-minutes of fame.<\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/player.vimeo.com\/video\/258154056\" width=\"640\" height=\"360\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ll also run into videos that propose that their version of No Contact is somehow better than mine by calling it something fancy like \u201cThe Super No Contact Strategy\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>Again, don\u2019t fall for it.<\/p>\n<p>These fancy names only serve as a gimmick in their quest to get views and build controversy.<\/p>\n<p>So today, I\u2019m going to categorically shut down all of these arguments once and for all.<\/p>\n<h3><strong>The first argument that I hear is \u201cyou can\u2019t ignore your ex into wanting to be with you again.<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>\u201cMy simple rebuttal to this fallacious statement is, \u201c yes, you can.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>In many cases, simply engaging in No Contact is good enough to force your ex to feel enough attraction to you to want to get back together with you.<\/p>\n<p>Absence is an extremely powerful force and using this psychological strategy can yield some pretty positive results.<\/p>\n<p>Even if your ex doesn\u2019t come back to you after a lengthy No Contact period, you\u2019ll allow your ex\u2019s emotions to settle in the wake up a breakup.<\/p>\n<p>See, depending on how your relationship ended, your ex could be feeling a myriad of emotions \u2013 anger, sadness, hurt or depression.<\/p>\n<p>These sorts of negative emotions must be given time to settle in order for your ex to begin feeling positive emotions for you again.<\/p>\n<p>And depending on the reason why you broke up, these emotions can take weeks to subside.<\/p>\n<p>However, there are a very few situations in which I do not recommend No Contact, but for the vast majority of people out there that want their ex back, No Contact is not only crucial, but it is absolutely necessary.<\/p>\n<h3><strong>The second piece of nonsense that gets thrown around is that I somehow believe No Contact will solve all your problems.<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>Not once have I said that No Contact is the magic bullet that will make your ex come crawling back to you.<\/p>\n<p>People who who have seen my work will know that while No Contact is indeed an integral part of my system, it isn\u2019t always a 1-step solution.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ll soon realize that most of the time, getting your ex back is generally a 3-step process and No Contact is only a part of the first step.<\/p>\n<p>In my 10 years of breakup and relationship experience, I\u2019ve discovered that these three steps work for the vast majority of all my clients and if you\u2019ve read about my 3 step system on exactly how to get your ex back, you\u2019ll realize that I outline every single possible scenario that you could possibly face.<\/p>\n<p>So if you think your particular situation is somehow unique and you\u2019re not sure if No Contact is even applicable to you, I\u2019ve got you covered.<\/p>\n<h3><strong>The third argument that these so-called experts like to spout is that the recovery process that you undergo during No Contact is ineffective or useless.<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>In my version of No Contact, I tell my clients that they need to undergo several key personal development routines that are crucial if you want to get your ex back and keep him or her.<\/p>\n<p>Getting your ex back is absolutely useless if your ex will suddenly break up with you again a few weeks after getting back together.<\/p>\n<p>While the tips that I outline during my No Contact may sound like they\u2019re insignificant, I can assure you that they\u2019ll not only help you feel more confident, but you\u2019ll be better equipped to building a stronger, more vibrant relationship with your ex once you get him or her back.<\/p>\n<p>Now, I can keep going on and on about the other silly arguments these self-proclaimed experts claim but that would be giving them too much credit.<\/p>\n<p>Honestly, I\u2019d rather not have to make this, but I was sick and tired of seeing some people get misleading information.<\/p>\n<p>So if you want the TRUTH about how to get your ex back, then I highly suggest you go check out the free video below.\u00a0It will give you all the information you need to start winning them back today.<\/p>\n<h3><strong><em><a href=\"http:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/brad\">Video: Secrets To Getting Your Ex Boyfriend Back<\/a><\/em><\/strong><\/h3>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/brad\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-1423\" src=\"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/MYS-GetYourExBoyfriend.jpg\" alt=\"Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back\" width=\"933\" height=\"420\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/MYS-GetYourExBoyfriend.jpg 933w, https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/MYS-GetYourExBoyfriend-300x135.jpg 300w, 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