{"id":1998,"date":"2018-06-22T21:49:42","date_gmt":"2018-06-22T21:49:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/?p=1998"},"modified":"2018-07-02T04:12:51","modified_gmt":"2018-07-02T04:12:51","slug":"how-to-get-your-ex-to-forgive-you","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/how-to-get-your-ex-to-forgive-you\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Get Your Ex To Forgive You"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em>By Brad Browning<\/em><br \/>\n<em>From <a href=\"http:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/brad\">The Ex Factor Guide<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n<h3><strong>If you can&#8217;t tell for sure if you&#8217;re over analyzing your ex&#8217;s behavior, then check this out&#8230;<\/strong><br \/>\n<strong><em><a href=\"http:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/brad\">The Ex Factor Guide<\/a><\/em><\/strong><\/h3>\n<h2>How to Get Your Ex To Forgive You<\/h2>\n<p>Hi everyone here&#8217;s another video for you&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s me, Brad, a relationship coach and dating expert. The creator of <a href=\"http:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/brad\">The X Factor Guide<\/a>, a program that teaches men and women how to get their exes back into their life.<\/p>\n<p>The subject of today&#8217;s video is a little painful. I&#8217;m going to teach you how to get your ex-boyfriend or ex-girlfriend to forgive you.<\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/player.vimeo.com\/video\/258153709\" width=\"640\" height=\"360\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p>I know how difficult it can be to get someone to forgive you. It&#8217;s not easy.<\/p>\n<p>The amount of guilt that you feel for hurting someone you love can be unbearable at times, and the amount of time it&#8217;s going to take for your ex to forgive you is obviously going to vary depending on the situation.<\/p>\n<p>Obviously, if you&#8217;ve done something serious like cheat on him or her, the amount of time required for your ex to recover may be significant, so be prepared for that.<\/p>\n<p>But regardless of the length of time, you need to know one thing&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><strong>You can&#8217;t make your ex forgive you faster.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You can&#8217;t rush it. There&#8217;s no magic sentence or magic potion that will expedite the process&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>And the difficult thing is that everyone&#8217;s different. Some people have a tendency to forgive quickly, and some people hold on to things for a lot longer.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Regardless of what you think about your situation, what your odds are, just remember a few key pointers:<\/strong><\/p>\n<h3><strong>#1. You need to apologize and put your heart and soul into it, really mean it.<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>I know this seems like an obvious one, but hear me out.<\/p>\n<p>You need to sit down and look into your partner&#8217;s eyes and tell them how sorry you are.<\/p>\n<p>Make sure they know how badly you feel.<\/p>\n<p>Make sure the apology feels real and genuine, not rushed or fabricated.<\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t make it seem like you&#8217;re only saying it so you can get your ex back. It needs to be real, so show your regret and show that you&#8217;re very sorry.<\/p>\n<p>Your apology needs to come directly from your heart because you mean it.<\/p>\n<h3><strong>#2. Don&#8217;t apologize too much<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>You need to apologize a few times to start depending on what you&#8217;ve done wrong, but that&#8217;s where the bad words end.<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes, when somebody hurts you, the last thing you want to hear again is I&#8217;m sorry over and over.<\/p>\n<p>So apologizing once or twice (but really meaning it) is a lot more powerful than a million I&#8217;m sorry text messages or whatever it is.<\/p>\n<p>So don&#8217;t overdo it.<\/p>\n<h3><strong>#3. Allow your ex to ask you questions<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>Your ex probably wants to know of the details of why you did what you did. Allow him or her to ask you anything they want about what happened.<\/p>\n<p>Tell them succinctly and honestly, but always make sure that you have an undertone of regret.<\/p>\n<p>Helping your ex understand the situation might lessen the blow a little bit.<\/p>\n<h3><strong>#4. Don&#8217;t just say things, Do things<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>You know the old cliche, &#8220;actions speak louder than words&#8221; and &#8220;talk is cheap&#8221; this is all true.<\/p>\n<p>You need to rebuild the trust and love that your ex once had with you, and you can&#8217;t simply do that by just saying a few words.<\/p>\n<p>You have to take action.<\/p>\n<p>If this means buying flowers or giving your man a massage, then do it, if it means being supportive emotionally through this difficult time, do it.<\/p>\n<h3><strong>#5. Give your ex some space if they need it<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>Sometimes your ex will tell you to just get out. And at that point, don&#8217;t linger, just get out of there. You&#8217;ve said everything you needed to say.<\/p>\n<p>And now, your ex needs some time alone to process the information &#8211; and that&#8217;s that&#8217;s a good thing.<\/p>\n<p>You don&#8217;t want to be around your ex when he or she&#8217;s angry at you. It&#8217;ll only make things worse.<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes giving each other space is the best way to get your ex to forgive you.<\/p>\n<h3><strong>#6. Promise you won&#8217;t ever do it<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>Again, you need to promise that this won&#8217;t happen to your ex ever again. I know it&#8217;s not really shocking advice but it has to be said.<\/p>\n<p>But here&#8217;s the kicker, you need to keep that promise.<\/p>\n<p><strong>If you want to learn the full method of how to get your ex to forgive you for everything you feel like you&#8217;ve done wrong, and hopefully come back to you as well, check this out&#8230;<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>It&#8217;s jam-packed with juicy information!<\/strong><\/p>\n<h2><a href=\"http:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/brad\"><strong>Video: Secrets To Getting Your Ex Boyfriend Back<\/strong><\/a><\/h2>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/brad\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-1423\" src=\"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/MYS-GetYourExBoyfriend.jpg\" alt=\"Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back\" width=\"933\" height=\"420\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/MYS-GetYourExBoyfriend.jpg 933w, https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/MYS-GetYourExBoyfriend-300x135.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/MYS-GetYourExBoyfriend-768x346.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 933px) 100vw, 933px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>By Brad Browning From The Ex Factor Guide If you can&#8217;t tell for sure if you&#8217;re over analyzing your ex&#8217;s behavior, then check this out&#8230; The Ex Factor Guide How to Get Your Ex To&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":1999,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_exactmetrics_skip_tracking":false,"_exactmetrics_sitenote_active":false,"_exactmetrics_sitenote_note":"","_exactmetrics_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[13,16,21],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1998"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1998"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1998\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2012,"href":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1998\/revisions\/2012"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1999"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1998"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1998"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1998"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}