{"id":1589,"date":"2018-05-10T04:40:01","date_gmt":"2018-05-10T04:40:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/?p=1589"},"modified":"2018-06-05T21:40:23","modified_gmt":"2018-06-05T21:40:23","slug":"how-to-get-guys-to-like-you-7-tips","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/how-to-get-guys-to-like-you-7-tips\/","title":{"rendered":"How To Get Guys To Like You \u2013 7 Tips"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em>By Carlos Cavallo<\/em><br \/>\n<em>From <a href=\"http:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/go\/idesireb\">Irresistible Desire<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n<h3><strong>Make him fall in love with you without worrying about him pulling away or thinking that you&#8217;re &#8220;playing games&#8230;<\/strong><\/h3>\n<h3><strong><em><a href=\"http:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/go\/lodb\">The Secrets of Addictive Unconditional Love And Complete Devotion<\/a><\/em><\/strong><\/h3>\n<h2>How To Get Guys To Like You \u2013 7 Tips<\/h2>\n<p>When I started writing this article, I wasn\u2019t sure I wanted to talk about how to force another person to feel attraction to you. It felt a little\u00a0<em>manipulative<\/em>\u2026<\/p>\n<p>But then I remembered my own values about this topic. I believe, deep down, that\u00a0<em>you can never make a person feel something they don\u2019t already have the potential to feel.<\/em>\u00a0It is very ethical to help a person get past their own \u201cstuff\u201d so that\u00a0<strong>romance can\u00a0happen<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>And as a woman, you have all the requirements \u2013 as well as\u00a0<em>equipment<\/em>\u2013 to\u00a0<strong>get any man to like you<\/strong>. You just have to know how to use them.<\/p>\n<p>So if you\u2019re holding back out of that fear that it won\u2019t be \u201cdestiny\u201d calling the shots, you can stop worrying.<\/p>\n<p><strong><span id=\"You_can_never_make_anyone_do_anything_they_wouldn8217t_do_of_their_own_free_will\">You can never make anyone do anything they wouldn\u2019t do of their own free will.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re only clearing the path to the heart connection that was\u00a0<em><strong>meant to happen!<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>So let\u2019s jump right into the tips with \u2013<\/p>\n<h3><strong><span id=\"Get_Guys_To_Desire_You_8211_Tip_1_Open_His_Mouth8230\">Get Guys To Desire You \u2013 Tip 1: Open His Mouth\u2026<\/span><\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>The best thing you can do is to get a guy talking.<\/p>\n<p>Period,\u00a0<em>hands down<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p>There are so many benefits to making him talk to you\u2026<\/p>\n<h3><strong>GETTING HIM TO TALK BENEFIT 1: He\u2019s going to trust you more\u2026<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>Ironically, we become more invested in people the more we talk to them. We allow ourselves to reveal each other and be more vulnerable the more we sense a listening ear.<\/p>\n<h3><strong>GETTING HIM TO TALK BENEFIT 2: He\u2019s going to want to know more about you\u2026<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>The more a person talks about themselves, the more they feel the pull for reciprocation. He\u2019s going to really want to know what you\u2019re all about.<\/p>\n<p>It just takes patience to hold off on your own need for him to show\u00a0<em>how interested he is in you<\/em>. If you can wait, you\u2019ll be paid back\u00a0<strong>BIG TIME\u2026<\/strong><\/p>\n<h3><strong>GETTING HIM TO TALK BENEFIT 3: He\u2019s going to get fired up and more emotional\u2026<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>When you hit on his passions, hammer on that button! It\u2019s his hot button, and it will be the key to getting his emotions going. Every man loves to talk about his passion.<\/p>\n<p>Plus you get the added benefit of seeing how passionate he will be about you\u2026<\/p>\n<h3><strong><span id=\"Get_Him_To_Like_You_8211_Tip_2_Touchy_Touchy8230\">Get Him To Like You \u2013 Tip 2: Touchy Touchy\u2026<\/span><\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>When it comes to getting a guy to really dig you, you have to leverage touch as your primary weapon.<\/p>\n<p>Nothing makes a guy bond to you more as him knowing you\u2019re both\u00a0<em><strong>physically connected<\/strong><\/em>. We feel that connection right down to our bones.<\/p>\n<p>Keep in mind that men go through much of their lives without getting a lot of physical affection or touch.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s not how men console each other, first of all. We do that with\u00a0<em>words<\/em>. (You might notice your man doing this frequently.)<\/p>\n<p>And men rarely get the kind of regular touch connection that women give each other regularly.<\/p>\n<p><strong>So when guys get touched affectionately, we respond.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>The best thing you can do on the first date, as soon as you meet him on the date in fact, is to find any reason to put your hand on his hand, arm, or back.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>You\u2019ll see his back straighten up\u2026<\/strong><\/li>\n<li><strong>You\u2019ll command his attention instantly\u2026<\/strong><\/li>\n<li><strong>You\u2019ll see his eyes light up\u2026<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>His instinct will be to connect with you and give you his full attention.<\/p>\n<p>Try it out and see\u2026!<\/p>\n<h3><strong><span id=\"Get_Guys_To_Pay_Attention_To_You_8211_Tip_3_Super_Flirt\">Get Guys To Pay Attention To You \u2013 Tip 3: Super Flirt!<\/span><\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>Most guys don\u2019t notice when a girl is into them. Mostly because women are far too subtle in the way they flirt.<\/p>\n<p>Growing up, women are afraid of appearing \u201ctoo forward\u201d or \u201cslutty.\u201d So they water down their attention and interest. Which is the\u00a0<em>kiss of death<\/em>\u00a0if you\u2019re trying to let a guy know he\u2019s got the green light to move forward.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>So you have to be willing to push the envelope here a bit.\u00a0<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t play it coy or cool.\u00a0Go out there on a limb and make it clear.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t have to say \u201cI like you, stupid!\u201d \u2013 But you should make it\u00a0<strong>very clear<\/strong>\u00a0there\u2019s interest. At least to the point where he will ask a male or female friend of his if this is what he thinks it is.<\/p>\n<p>But, after that point, it\u2019s all up to him!\u00a0 Don\u2019t ask him out or do the work for him from there. You simply put a spark out there, and he has to turn it into fire.<\/p>\n<h3><strong><span id=\"Make_Him_Fall_In_8220Like8221_With_You_8211_Tip_4_Super_Compliments8230\">Make Him Fall In \u201cLike\u201d With You \u2013 Tip 4: Super Compliments\u2026<\/span><\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>Another thing guys don\u2019t get a lot of is\u00a0<strong>recognition and compliments<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>When you appreciate a man, you complete him. So\u00a0<em>never<\/em>\u00a0waste an opportunity to recognize him for something.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><strong>The best kind of recognition is to point out some part of his character you admire.<\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Men respond so well to this, you\u2019ll think you just cast a spell on him to open his heart. (And if you think I\u2019m over-stating this, you couldn\u2019t be more wrong. It\u2019s\u00a0<strong>GOLD<\/strong>.)<\/p>\n<p><strong>For example,<\/strong>\u00a0let\u2019s say he mentions helping his mother with some task. It could be as simple as getting rid of some of her old furniture.<\/p>\n<p>Ask yourself, how would\u00a0<strong>you<\/strong>\u00a0find a way to compliment him about that?<\/p>\n<p>If you said, \u201cWow, that\u2019s sweet of you, helping your mom\u201d \u2013 you\u2019d be missing a huge opportunity here. That\u2019s an OK way to call it out, but you could do so much better.<\/p>\n<p>Like this:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><strong>\u201cWOW \u2013 That\u2019s really sweet of you\u2026 you must have a lot of caring to help her. You strike me as a person who wouldn\u2019t let someone down if they were in need\u2026<\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Now, whether or not that\u2019s true has yet to be proven, but you score major points for giving him the benefit of the doubt. And now he has a positive quality to live up to for you.<\/p>\n<p>I call this a \u201c<strong>super compliment<\/strong>\u201d and it\u2019s one of the most lethal love tactics you can use on a guy.<\/p>\n<h3><strong><span id=\"Make_Him_Like_You_Back_8211_Tip_5_Dyn-O-MITE\">Make Him Like You Back \u2013 Tip 5: Dyn-O-MITE!<\/span><\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>There was an old 70s show called \u201cGood Times\u201d that featured Jimmie Walker. His catchphrase for the show was to say \u201c<strong>Dyn-O-MITE!<\/strong>\u201d every time he saw something that lit him up. It was on t-shirts everywhere back in the day\u2026<\/p>\n<p>You want to look and be\u00a0<em><strong>DYN-O-MITE!<\/strong><\/em>\u00a0 for him.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Pay attention to your appearance<\/strong>. Go the extra mile on your makeup and wardrobe, without looking too try-hard, of course.<\/p>\n<p>The visual aspect of attraction\u00a0<strong>is<\/strong>\u00a0important to men\u00a0<em><strong>at first<\/strong><\/em>. It tells him a lot about your attitude and attention to your presentation.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve seen women on dates that looked like they rolled out of bed and just put something casual on. Let\u2019s get back to the days when we all worked to look good on dates.<\/p>\n<p><strong><span id=\"You_want_him_thinking_DYN-O-MITE_when_he_sees_you8230\">You want him thinking DYN-O-MITE! when he sees you\u2026<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Look your best<\/strong>, and don\u2019t be afraid to let him know that you did it for him. He\u2019ll be\u00a0flattered\u00a0<strong>AND<\/strong>\u00a0<em>impressed<\/em>\u2026<\/p>\n<h3><strong><span id=\"Get_Guys_To_Desire_You_8211_Tip_6_Strategic_Retreat8230\">Get Guys To Desire You \u2013 Tip 6: Strategic Retreat\u2026<\/span><\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>Sometimes the best thing you can do to get him wanting you is to take away his \u201cdrug fix.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><strong>Remember<\/strong>: There\u2019s no harm in reminding a guy of all the great stuff he gets by being with you!<\/p>\n<p>I call this the \u201cloyalty\/rewards program.\u201d Hey, prestigious car companies do this, like BMW. Are\u00a0<strong>YOU<\/strong>\u00a0any less valuable?<\/p>\n<p>Every so often you need to do your own thing. Maybe take a weekend to yourself. ALL the women I\u2019ve considered \u201chigh-value women\u201d in my life did this, and I respected and valued them\u00a0<strong>MORE<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>WAY MORE.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Another thing you should watch out for is this:<\/p>\n<h3><span id=\"Don8217t_commit_to_a_guy_that_hasn8217t_already_asked_YOU_for_a_commitment8230\">Don\u2019t commit to a guy that hasn\u2019t\u00a0already asked YOU for a commitment\u2026<\/span><\/h3>\n<p>This is\u00a0<strong>HUGE<\/strong>, and it\u2019s a\u00a0<em><strong>big mistake women make with men<\/strong><\/em>. They open their hearts to a man, and they go\u00a0<strong>way overboard<\/strong>\u00a0on their own level of commitment to him.<\/p>\n<p>When a guy sees this, his inner voice tells him: \u201cDude, you don\u2019t have to work so hard. She\u2019ll do it all.\u201d And then he stops putting any romantic effort into your relationship. He considers you a \u201cdone deal.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Remember that your first and only job as the woman in a new relationship is to be cherished and valued as The Prize. If it\u2019s the other way around, it\u2019s\u00a0<strong>nearly impossible<\/strong>\u00a0to get him to turn that around into respect for you later on.<\/p>\n<h3><strong><span id=\"Get_Guys_To_Desire_You_8211_Tip_7_Don8217t_Try_To_Be_Confident8230\">Get Guys To Desire You \u2013 Tip 7: Don\u2019t Try To Be Confident\u2026<\/span><\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>Let\u2019s face it \u2013 most every article out there tells you to just \u201cbe confident!\u201d for him.<\/p>\n<p>Funny enough, this is the same advice that all the articles for men give.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Be confident\u2026\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Yeah, okay, so\u00a0<strong>HOW<\/strong>\u00a0the heck do you actually do that???<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s why I\u2019m saying right up front, don\u2019t\u00a0<strong>TRY<\/strong>\u00a0to put on any kind of appearances with him like this. You can\u2019t\u00a0<strong>TRY<\/strong>\u00a0to appear confident to someone. The second you do,\u00a0<em>you look the complete opposite.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Instead, express yourself from the things in your life that you feel excited about.<\/p>\n<p>Let\u2019s say you\u2019re really jazzed up about a new exercise class you\u2019ve been going to\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Use\u00a0<strong>that<\/strong>\u00a0class as a topic of conversation with him. Your\u00a0<em>energy and enthusiasm<\/em>\u00a0will come out when you talk about it. He\u2019ll feel your vibrance and confidence based on your energy.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Confidence is as much an expression as it is anything<\/strong>. It\u2019s not something you really\u00a0<strong>POSSESS<\/strong>\u2026 it\u2019s something you\u00a0<em>express<\/em>\u00a0with your actions.<\/p>\n<p>This might be why so many people fail to appear \u201cconfident.\u201d They\u2019re trying to find and hold on to a feeling that is best\u00a0<strong>shown<\/strong>\u00a0through your words.<\/p>\n<p>Confidence is\u00a0<em><strong>Irresistible<\/strong><\/em>.<\/p>\n<p>You probably know this \u2013 or at least have heard it more times than you can count.<\/p>\n<p>And if you want to\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/go\/idesireb\">BE irresistible to men<\/a>, you have to\u00a0<strong>know how this secret power works\u2026<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I can show you the secrets of\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/go\/idesireb\"><strong>Irresistible Desire<\/strong><\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Go watch\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/go\/idesireb\"><strong>this short presentation<\/strong><\/a>\u00a0right now\u2026<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/go\/idesireb\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-1194\" src=\"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/MYS-IDesireB.jpg\" alt=\"Irresistible Desire\" width=\"933\" height=\"420\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/MYS-IDesireB.jpg 933w, https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/MYS-IDesireB-300x135.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/MYS-IDesireB-768x346.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 933px) 100vw, 933px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>By Carlos Cavallo From Irresistible Desire Make him fall in love with you without worrying about him pulling away or thinking that you&#8217;re &#8220;playing games&#8230; The Secrets of Addictive Unconditional Love And Complete Devotion How&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":1803,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_exactmetrics_skip_tracking":false,"_exactmetrics_sitenote_active":false,"_exactmetrics_sitenote_note":"","_exactmetrics_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[15,17,19],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1589"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1589"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1589\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1933,"href":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1589\/revisions\/1933"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1803"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1589"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1589"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1589"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}