{"id":1577,"date":"2018-05-08T02:37:33","date_gmt":"2018-05-08T02:37:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/?p=1577"},"modified":"2018-05-08T03:52:02","modified_gmt":"2018-05-08T03:52:02","slug":"how-to-tell-if-no-contact-is-working-3-signs-to-look-for","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/how-to-tell-if-no-contact-is-working-3-signs-to-look-for\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Tell If No Contact Is Working (3 Signs To Look For)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em>By Brad Browning<\/em><br \/>\n<em>From <a href=\"http:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/brad\">The Ex Factor Guide<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n<h3><strong>If you can&#8217;t tell for sure if you&#8217;re over analyzing your ex&#8217;s behavior, then check this out&#8230;<\/strong><br \/>\n<strong><em><a href=\"http:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/brad\">The Ex Factor Guide<\/a><\/em><\/strong><\/h3>\n<h2>How to Tell If No Contact Is Working (3 Signs To Look For)<\/h2>\n<p>Brad Browning here, and today I want to talk to you about some of the signs that indicate the no-contact strategy is working.<\/p>\n<p>As many of you may already know, I\u2019m a relationship coach, breakup expert, and author of the best-selling <a href=\"http:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/brad\"><strong>The Ex Factor Guide<\/strong><\/a>. Welcome and thank you for joining me today.<\/p>\n<p>If you are here, then chances are that you\u2019ve made the wise decision to try out the <em><strong>No Contact Method<\/strong><\/em>. Great job!<\/p>\n<p>Now, here&#8217;s a video that you should watch:<\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/player.vimeo.com\/video\/251745888\" width=\"640\" height=\"360\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p>As you may know, the no-contact period is something that I personally encourage people to use, because if it\u2019s done correctly, it can stop and even reverse a breakup in its tracks.<\/p>\n<p>So, how can you tell if the no-contact phase is actually working for you?<\/p>\n<p><strong>Here\u2019s three signs to look for.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h3><strong>Sign #1. You\u2019re feeling better<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>Now that the storm has passed, you\u2019re finally beginning to see the light again. Inside you feel calm and more like yourself than you did after the breakup.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ve been spending time working on yourself, and you\u2019re feeling strong, self-aware, and in control.<\/p>\n<p>With each day that passes, your self-respect grows. Best of all, you\u2019re not driven by reckless emotions that have caused you to be careless, and you truly feel like a changed person.<\/p>\n<p>This is exactly how you should be feeling at this point, and it\u2019s one of the biggest signs that the no-contact period is working for you.<\/p>\n<h3><strong>Sign #2. Your ex contacts you<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>After weeks of not reaching out to your ex, they\u2019ve now become interested in communicating with you again. They call, text, \u201clike\u201d your Facebook photos, or maybe even ask you to meet up for coffee.<\/p>\n<p>The reason that your ex is so interested in contacting you now is no surprise. And, it\u2019s because the no-contact period is working.<\/p>\n<p>Since you\u2019ve been avoiding your ex instead of chasing after them, a few things have already happened. First of all, it\u2019s likely that your actions, or your lack thereof, have caught your ex by complete surprise.<\/p>\n<p>By cutting off communication, you\u2019ve basically shown your ex that you\u2019re stronger than they thought you were going to be after the breakup.<\/p>\n<p>The second thing that\u2019s happened since you\u2019ve been avoiding your ex is that they\u2019ve forgotten some of the negative memories that caused you to break up in the first place.<\/p>\n<p>As a result, your ex is probably starting to miss you, and they may even be paranoid that you\u2019re moving on, something that they probably never expected you to do so soon.<\/p>\n<p>If your ex wants to stop you from leaving, then they\u2019re going to have to take action at this point.<\/p>\n<p>Now, as tempting as it may be, it\u2019s important that you hold out and finish your no-contact phase before you attempt to rebuild the bond between you.<\/p>\n<p>Do not give your ex the opportunity to play with your emotions or to put you in the \u201cfriend\u201d zone, especially not while you\u2019re in the process of becoming a better you.<\/p>\n<p>If your ex doesn\u2019t contact you during the no-contact period, it doesn\u2019t mean that no-contact isn\u2019t working. It just means that they\u2019ve got a great poker face.<\/p>\n<p>Believe me when I say that it\u2019s still entirely possible that your ex does miss you, but they may just be too stubborn to reach out to you right now. Don\u2019t give up on the no-contact period. It works for a reason.<\/p>\n<h3><strong>Sign#3. Your ex is asking about you.<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>One of the most powerful aspects of the no-contact strategy is the way it sparks your ex\u2019s curiosity and creates a sense of mystery.<\/p>\n<p>I mean, think about it from your ex\u2019s perspective&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>He or she was used to having you around as a big part of their daily life, and then all of a sudden, poof, you\u2019ve disappeared.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s naturally going to cause your ex to wonder what you\u2019re up to and why you vanished without a trace.<\/p>\n<p>Most of the time your ex\u2019s curiosity is going to lead them to start digging for information about you.<\/p>\n<p>They might ask mutual friends what you\u2019ve been up to since the breakup.<\/p>\n<p>They might seem jealous when they hear about your newfound social life or the fact that you\u2019ve been dating.<\/p>\n<p>Hell, I\u2019ve even had coaching clients tell me that they\u2019ve caught their ex driving past their house late at night just to see what was going on.<\/p>\n<p>Now, hopefully, your ex won\u2019t be doing anything that creepy, but the simple fact of the matter is that any indications that your ex is curious about what you\u2019re up to is a clear sign that the no-contact strategy is working like magic.<\/p>\n<p>All right, well I hope you enjoyed this and you\u2019re a little more confident now that the no-contact period is working for you, or at least you\u2019re on the right track.<\/p>\n<h4><strong>If you found this information useful, make sure you click here to watch my free presentation to learn more right now&#8230;<\/strong><\/h4>\n<h2><a href=\"http:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/brad\"><strong>Secrets To Getting Your Ex Boyfriend Back<\/strong><\/a><\/h2>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/brad\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-1423\" src=\"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/MYS-GetYourExBoyfriend.jpg\" alt=\"Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back\" width=\"933\" height=\"420\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/MYS-GetYourExBoyfriend.jpg 933w, https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/MYS-GetYourExBoyfriend-300x135.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/MYS-GetYourExBoyfriend-768x346.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 933px) 100vw, 933px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>By Brad Browning From The Ex Factor Guide If you can&#8217;t tell for sure if you&#8217;re over analyzing your ex&#8217;s behavior, then check this out&#8230; The Ex Factor Guide How to Tell If No Contact&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":1585,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_exactmetrics_skip_tracking":false,"_exactmetrics_sitenote_active":false,"_exactmetrics_sitenote_note":"","_exactmetrics_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[15,17],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1577"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1577"}],"version-history":[{"count":6,"href":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1577\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1584,"href":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1577\/revisions\/1584"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1585"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1577"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1577"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1577"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}