{"id":1536,"date":"2018-04-19T05:16:19","date_gmt":"2018-04-19T05:16:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/?p=1536"},"modified":"2018-04-19T05:18:05","modified_gmt":"2018-04-19T05:18:05","slug":"5-things-you-should-never-say-to-your-ex","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/5-things-you-should-never-say-to-your-ex\/","title":{"rendered":"5 Things You Should Never Say To Your Ex"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em>By Brad Browning<\/em><br \/>\n<em>From <a href=\"http:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/brad\">The Ex Factor Guide<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n<h3><strong>If you can&#8217;t tell for sure if you&#8217;re over analyzing your ex&#8217;s behavior, then check this out&#8230;<\/strong><br \/>\n<strong><em><a href=\"http:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/brad\">The Ex Factor Guide<\/a><\/em><\/strong><\/h3>\n<h2>5 Things You Should Never Say To Your Ex<\/h2>\n<p>In this video, Brad Browning, relationship coach and author of \u201cThe Ex Factor\u201d guide, will talk about the things you should never say to your ex if you want to get back together with them.<\/p>\n<p>These are common things that people often say to their ex in the wake of a breakup, that they probably should not have said, and will regret down the road, if they want to get back together with their ex.<\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/player.vimeo.com\/video\/251745269\" width=\"640\" height=\"360\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<h3><strong>1. Begging or Pleading<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>The first thing you definitely do not want to say to your ex after a breakup is any sort of begging or pleading, such as, \u201cPlease give me another try,\u201d or \u201cI promise I\u2019ll change if you\u2019ll just give me another chance.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>This is going to do absolutely nothing to change your ex\u2019s mind.<\/p>\n<p>They have made up their mind on their own. Your groveling and begging is just going to make you seem desperate and pretty pathetic.<\/p>\n<p>Even though at the time it may have been a very logical-seeming thing to do, it\u2019s definitely not something you want to say. No begging or pleading after a breakup if you want to get back together.<\/p>\n<h3><strong>2. Don\u2019t tell your ex how much you love and miss them<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>The second thing you don\u2019t want to say are things like, \u201cI miss you,\u201d and \u201cI still love you.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Again, those may be things that are completely true. You may still love them, and you may miss them like crazy, but you don\u2019t want to tell your ex that right now. You need them to be guessing. You need to have some mystery.<\/p>\n<p>You definitely don\u2019t want to seem desperate or heartbroken in the eyes of your ex. That\u2019s not going to help you get them back, so don\u2019t say, \u201cI miss you,\u201d and don\u2019t say, \u201cI still love you,\u201d until the time is right.<\/p>\n<p>And, believe me, the time is not right for a long time after the breakup until you\u2019ve made some real progress towards getting back together.<\/p>\n<h3><strong>3. Don\u2019t tell them how upset you are<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>The third thing you don\u2019t want to say, and this ties into the whole desperation thing\u2014you don\u2019t want to say things like, \u201cI\u2019m so heartbroken,\u201d and \u201cI\u2019m so depressed,\u201d and \u201cI can\u2019t live without you.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t say things that give off a very clear message of being distraught, being heartbroken, being depressed. You want your ex to think that, sure, you are affected by the breakup. I mean, you cared about them. You wanted to be in this relationship, but you\u2019re going to be fine.<\/p>\n<p>Also, you want your ex to think that you are going to move on and that you don\u2019t need them in order to have a happy, successful life. So, saying things like, \u201cI\u2019m so heartbroken,\u201d \u201cI\u2019m so depressed,\u201d and all those sorts of things, are going to make you seem desperate. This is not going to help you get them back.<\/p>\n<h3><strong>4. Don\u2019t say anything angry or hateful<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>Another thing you don\u2019t want to say to your ex after the breakup is things like, \u201cI hate you,\u201d or \u201cYou treated me so badly,\u201d \u201cYou weren\u2019t right for me anyway.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>You definitely don\u2019t want to say any of those sort of angry, hateful things to your ex.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s only going to cause conflict that will reinforce their decision to break up with you because you are saying all these mean things in the wake of your breakup.<\/p>\n<p>Even if there was a lot of conflict and drama that surrounded your breakup, you still don\u2019t want to show anger. You don\u2019t want your ex to think that you\u2019re angry at them.<\/p>\n<p>You could be upset. That\u2019s natural. But, you don\u2019t want your ex to think that you\u2019re angry. So, don\u2019t say anything that will give that impression.<\/p>\n<h3><strong>5. Don\u2019t tell them never to speak to you again<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>Finally, the last thing you don\u2019t want to say is things like, \u201cNever talk to me again.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s the kind of thing you\u2019ll say in the heat of the moment, but you\u2019ll end up regretting later because often times your ex will take that seriously, especially if your breakup was clean and your relationship was very serious.<\/p>\n<p>They\u2019ll value your feelings. They won\u2019t want to hurt you. So, if you say something like, \u201cNever talk to me again,\u201d they will probably at least, for a certain period of time, take you up on that.<\/p>\n<h4><strong>If you found this information useful, make sure you click here to watch my free presentation to learn more right now&#8230;<\/strong><\/h4>\n<h2><a href=\"http:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/brad\"><strong>Secrets To Getting Your Ex Boyfriend Back<\/strong><\/a><\/h2>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/brad\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-1423\" src=\"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/MYS-GetYourExBoyfriend.jpg\" alt=\"Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back\" width=\"933\" height=\"420\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/MYS-GetYourExBoyfriend.jpg 933w, https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/MYS-GetYourExBoyfriend-300x135.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/MYS-GetYourExBoyfriend-768x346.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 933px) 100vw, 933px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>By Brad Browning From The Ex Factor Guide If you can&#8217;t tell for sure if you&#8217;re over analyzing your ex&#8217;s behavior, then check this out&#8230; The Ex Factor Guide 5 Things You Should Never Say&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":1540,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_exactmetrics_skip_tracking":false,"_exactmetrics_sitenote_active":false,"_exactmetrics_sitenote_note":"","_exactmetrics_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[15,16],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1536"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1536"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1536\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1539,"href":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1536\/revisions\/1539"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1540"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1536"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1536"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1536"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}