{"id":1449,"date":"2018-03-29T03:36:52","date_gmt":"2018-03-29T03:36:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/?p=1449"},"modified":"2018-06-05T04:53:30","modified_gmt":"2018-06-05T04:53:30","slug":"my-new-guy-is-confusing-does-he-want-me-or-not","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/my-new-guy-is-confusing-does-he-want-me-or-not\/","title":{"rendered":"My New Guy Is Confusing\u2026 Does He Want Me or Not?"},"content":{"rendered":"

By Claire Casey<\/em>
\nAuthor of Language of Desire<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n

Does He Really Love You Or Is He Just USING YOU? Watch this\u00a0special video\u00a0now to finally find out the TRUTH.\u00a0<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Video: How To Make A Man Connect With You (And Only You)<\/strong><\/a><\/h3>\n

My New Guy Is Confusing\u2026 Does He Want Me or Not?<\/h2>\n

Things are often wobbly in a\u00a0new relationship. And if you react too strongly to the wrong thing, it might be over before it gets better.<\/p>\n

Here are 3 critical things you remember if you want to give a new relationship a fighting chance\u2026<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u201cClaire<\/strong>, this new boyfriend drives me a little nuts. I REALLY like him, but he doesn\u2019t call enough (he just texts), and I wish we would go out more often. He says he really wants me and no one else in his life, but even though he introduced me to his family I don\u2019t feel like he has intensified our dating. We have not had sex. Is that weird? He says he\u2019s not dating others, only me, but that I can date other people. Does he not want me, or what? This is confusing.\u201d \u2014\u00a0Kyra<\/strong><\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

Hi, Kyra<\/strong>\u00a0\u2014 I think your\u00a0new guy\u00a0sounds great<\/strong>!\u00a0He\u2019s not putting crazy pressure on you (for sex or anything else), he\u2019s not asking you to stop dating other guys even though he\u2019s committing himself to you, and he\u2019s introduced you to his family. He sounds like a good guy\u00a0to me.<\/p>\n

Here are 3 tips that may help you while you navigate this new relationship\u2026<\/strong><\/p>\n

1. Let a New Relationship Be NEW for a while\u2026<\/strong><\/h2>\n

Well,\u00a0time PLUS a few problems<\/strong>\u00a0here and there.The biggest thing that will help you learn more about this guy is\u00a0time<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

Seriously!<\/p>\n

Because it\u2019s crazy-easy to be in a relationship when there are no real issues to deal with.\u00a0But how can you really know much about someone until you go through a little bit of struggle together?<\/em><\/strong>\u00a0THAT\u2019S when you\u2019ll really find out something about your guy\u2026<\/p>\n

So relax and try to enjoy this experience of getting to know him, without trying to rush things.<\/strong>\u00a0And once you get through a few small struggles (and this is your first one), you\u2019ll get a better idea of how well the two of you match.<\/p>\n

2. Remember That Everybody Has Issues (Even You)<\/strong><\/h2>\n

He\u2019s moving slowly and carefully. He doesn\u2019t want to go faster right now, and he\u2019s perfectly willing for you to keep dating, so\u00a0why not accept the offer and see where it goes for a while?<\/em><\/p>\n

Of course, you wouldn\u2019t want it to stay this way FOREVER (and he doesn\u2019t either), so\u00a0set yourself a timeline<\/strong>\u00a0and let him know how long you envision dating before making further decisions.<\/p>\n

If you want to step up the pace a little bit, do it cautiously; he probably has good reasons for his pace \u2014 a nasty breakup, a big shift in his work or life, who knows.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

A\u00a0few good conversations<\/strong>\u00a0with him may reveal what\u2019s making him cautious. Nobody ever comes into a relationship without a few weird, painful, or hard-to-resolve issues in their past.<\/p>\n

3. Don\u2019t Let Minor Details Wreck an Otherwise\u00a0Good Relationship<\/strong><\/h2>\n

Know the difference between small stuff and\u00a0deal-breakers.<\/strong><\/p>\n

For example, I wouldn\u2019t worry right now about the \u201cnot enough talking on the phone\u201d issue. It seems pretty minor \u2013 not a deal breaker \u2013 and you can work on that with him later if you need to.<\/p>\n

You deserve a relationship filled with passion, and you deserve a man who loves you without reserve. It\u2019s time to\u00a0allow yourself to let an amazing man love you<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

The kind of man who wants what YOU want.<\/p>\n

Who does wonderful things for you because he wants to make you happy. A man who dreams of you and only you. Who is loyal, loving, and who waits eagerly to be with you again whenever you\u2019re separated.<\/p>\n

The big question is, are you ready? Are you ready for that kind of love?<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Does He Really Love You Or Is He Just USING YOU? Watch this\u00a0special video\u00a0now to finally find out the TRUTH.\u00a0<\/strong><\/a><\/h3>\n

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