{"id":1439,"date":"2018-03-28T04:01:28","date_gmt":"2018-03-28T04:01:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/?p=1439"},"modified":"2018-07-15T23:03:47","modified_gmt":"2018-07-15T23:03:47","slug":"5-texts-to-make-a-man-fall-in-love-with-you","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/5-texts-to-make-a-man-fall-in-love-with-you\/","title":{"rendered":"5 Texts to Make a Man Fall In Love with You"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em>By Amy North<\/em><br \/>\n<em>From <a href=\"http:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/amy\">Devotion System<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n<p>If you really want to win him over and commit himself to you 100%, go on and check this out right now\u2026<\/p>\n<h3><em><a href=\"http:\/\/Video: How To Make A Man Obsess Over You\"><strong>How To Make A Man Obsess Over You<\/strong><\/a><\/em><\/h3>\n<h3>5 Texts to Make a Man Fall In Love with You<\/h3>\n<p>When it comes to love, you probably have the same set of ideas in mind. Flowers, candlelit dinners, holding hands and planning your <strong>happily ever after<\/strong> with the man of your dreams.<\/p>\n<p>Well, that\u2019s all cute and charming, but before you can share those experiences with a guy, you need to <strong>make him<\/strong> fall in love with you first.<\/p>\n<p>But don&#8217;t get all worked up or start panicking that this is a <strong>HUGE <\/strong>and\u00a0seemingly impossible challenge. Stay calm, and believe me, this isn\u2019t as hard as it seems.<\/p>\n<p>That said, there are going to be situations or circumstances where the messages I share in this post will need adapting. I mean, you\u2019re not going to text a man about a trip to Cuba if you\u2019ve never left the country \u2014 but again, don\u2019t worry.<\/p>\n<p><strong>I\u2019ll give you the templates, then all you\u2019ll have to do is personalize these to make them your own.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/player.vimeo.com\/video\/252811861\" width=\"640\" height=\"360\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p>Before I get ahead of myself though, I do have to mention that there are some super important \u201crules\u201d to keep in mind.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Let\u2019s use R.U.L.E.S. as an acronym to help you remember these pointers:<\/strong><\/p>\n<h3><strong>R \u2013 Re-read Your Message<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>Before you hit send on your phone it\u2019s important that you <strong>read<\/strong> the text message you\u2019ve just typed.<\/p>\n<p>Check it for clarity, spelling, and tone. Read it at least five times; you\u2019d be surprised how easy it is to <strong>overlook<\/strong> the simplest mistakes.<\/p>\n<p>Besides, if you send him a <strong>powerful<\/strong> message BUT have to follow it up with a spelling correction or explanation, it&#8217;s going to lose its <strong>bite<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>So don\u2019t sell yourself short and read your messages before sending.<\/p>\n<h3><strong>U \u2013 Use Visual Language<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>Now, when it comes to text messaging, men and women are quite different in terms of the <strong>types<\/strong> of messages they best respond to.<\/p>\n<p>See, us ladies like getting messages that are <strong>emotionally descriptive<\/strong> and evoke our <em>feelings<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p>Men, on the other hand, are <strong>visual<\/strong> creatures and respond best to messages that allow his mind&#8217;s eye to paint a vivid picture that he can almost touch.<\/p>\n<p>This means that you\u2019ll want to use <strong>visually descriptive language<\/strong>. Let me give you an example&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Instead of texting him, \u201cI really want to kiss you right now,\u201d you\u2019d want to say something like \u201cIf I was there right now, my lips would be pressed so softly against yours.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>See the difference between the two? Take the time to add those details, they make all the difference.<\/p>\n<h3><strong>L \u2013 Leave Him Wanting More<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>This one is pretty self-explanatory and it simply means <strong>don\u2019t overdo it.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>If you blow up your man\u2019s phone with <strong>pointless, redundant<\/strong>\u00a0messages, then he isn\u2019t going to look forward to hearing from you.<\/p>\n<p>However, if you only send him well thought out, cleverly crafted messages, well those are the ones that are going to keep him hanging on your every word\u2026. Or text rather. ?<\/p>\n<h3><strong>E \u2013 Excite Him (avoid boring messages)<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>I don\u2019t know about you ladies, but there are few things that bother me more than the one or even<strong> two-word<\/strong> text message.<\/p>\n<p>You know the ones I\u2019m talking about; \u201cHi\u201d or \u201cWhat\u2019s up?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Those make me roll my eyes and cringe!<\/p>\n<p>Maybe it\u2019s because they come across as <strong>lazy<\/strong> or give the impression that the sender is <strong>bored<\/strong> and only texting for their own entertainment, or maybe it\u2019s because they don\u2019t make me feel, well, anything really\u2026 asides from irritated.<\/p>\n<p>Every message you send your man should be <strong>exciting<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>Boring, low-effort and unimaginative texts won&#8217;t inspire your man or make him stand up and pay attention.<\/p>\n<p>Now, I know this can be tough, especially if you have the kind of relationship where you communicate daily through texts, and share those little mundane thoughts and updates.<\/p>\n<p>But seriously, believe me when I say it\u2019s <strong>time<\/strong> to slow down on these texts so you don&#8217;t water it down.<\/p>\n<p>Remember, <strong>quality<\/strong> wins over quantity!<\/p>\n<p>From here on out you want to make sure that every text message you send is captivating and exciting! I\u2019ll touch more on this later.<\/p>\n<h3><strong>S \u2013 Stay Positive<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>If you want to make a man fall in love with you by texting him, then the absolute last thing you want to do is send him anything that\u2019s negative or depressing.<\/p>\n<p>Sure, you\u2019ll have your not-so-great days, but even when those strikes, keep your messages <strong>pleasant<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>While there\u2019s a time and place for opening up and letting your guy in on those <strong>vulnerable<\/strong> thoughts and feelings, texting isn\u2019t it.<\/p>\n<p>So from now on, think of your cell phone as your <strong>positive pocket-sized device<\/strong> that only sends messages that express <strong>feel-good<\/strong> thoughts.<\/p>\n<p>With these RULES up your sleeve, you\u2019re already on your way to texting your way into his heart. Now, let\u2019s get to the good stuff &#8211; the texts to make a man fall in love with you.<\/p>\n<h3><strong>1. The \u201cThinking About You\u201d Text<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>If you\u2019re looking to make a man fall in love with you then this is a great text to start out with.<\/p>\n<p>When I say <strong>start out<\/strong>, I\u2019m assuming that you\u2019ve already been seeing your guy for at least a little while.<\/p>\n<p>This kind of text (and the other ones I\u2019m going to cover here) are intended if you\u2019re <strong>already in a relationship<\/strong> with a man.<\/p>\n<p>Now that we&#8217;ve established that, let\u2019s get to the nitty-gritty&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Simply put, the purpose of this type of text message is to do <strong>exactly<\/strong> as its name implies: to let your man know that you\u2019re thinking about him.<\/p>\n<p>But as simple as it sounds, it&#8217;s going to have a <strong>profound<\/strong> effect on your guy!<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s easy to get beat down by the grind of everyday life. And after a particularly crappy day, an unpleasant or demanding text message can push you over the edge and make you pull your hair out.<\/p>\n<p>So then, if you can be the reason your man <strong>smiles<\/strong> when he looks at his phone, then slowly but surely you\u2019re going to <strong>bound<\/strong> his heart to you.<\/p>\n<p>To be the positive boost and ray of sunshine in his life, consider sending a text like the following.<\/p>\n<p><em>\u201cHey, I was driving to work this morning and I heard the Beatles\u2019 song that was playing the first night we met. It made me think of you.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>\u201cYou\u2019ve been on my mind all morning, I can\u2019t wait to see you later.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Yes, both of these are pretty <strong>simple<\/strong>, but &#8220;Thinking Of You&#8221; text messages are a <strong>perfect<\/strong> instance of when <strong>less is more<\/strong>. That said, the next few texts I\u2019m going to share with you are bit more complex.<\/p>\n<h3><strong>2. The \u201cDrive Me Wild\u201d Text<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>If you\u2019re looking to make a man fall in love with you it\u2019s <strong>important<\/strong> that you give him what <strong>every man<\/strong> desires: <strong>sex<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>Now, that\u2019s not to say you have to send him nude pictures of yourself\u00a0or text him the kama sutra. In fact, I recommend NOT being too explicit about it.<\/p>\n<p>Rather, it\u2019s about <strong>turning up the heat<\/strong> little by little to create sexual tension between the two of you via text messaging.<\/p>\n<p>In my experience, the &#8220;slow burn&#8221; approach works best!<\/p>\n<p>\u201cDrive Me Wild\u201d texts are important because they create a <strong>digital fantasy world<\/strong> for you and your man to explore together.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s a space to say the things that you might <strong>not<\/strong> be brave enough to voice out loud, and the <strong>chance<\/strong> to tell him all the things that turn YOU on.<\/p>\n<p>For example, let\u2019s say that you really love when he kisses a certain part of your body, but anytime you even think about telling him, you blush and feel awkward about it.<\/p>\n<p>This is exactly the kind of stuff you can explore with him via text. Just be sure that when you do, you make your message is as <strong>detailed<\/strong> and <strong>descriptive<\/strong> as possible.<\/p>\n<p>As I already mentioned, men are <strong>visual<\/strong> creatures so you\u2019re going to want to really paint him a picture with your words.<\/p>\n<p>Sending him \u201cYour kisses drive me wild\u201d is okay&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>&#8230;but it&#8217;s not as good as something like, \u201cI cannot wait to feel your lips graze my body tonight&#8230;you know the <strong>spots<\/strong> that turn me on.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Now <strong>THAT\u2019S<\/strong> the kind of message that&#8217;ll make him sit up and take notice!<\/p>\n<p>Best of all, you don\u2019t even have to live out the <strong>fantasies<\/strong> you describe here, but that said, just be careful not to <strong>explicitly<\/strong> agree to do anything that you have <strong>no intention<\/strong> of doing.<\/p>\n<p>If you do, then he\u2019ll think that you\u2019re just all talk\u2026 or in this case, all text, which as you can imagine, is a bit of a turn-off.<\/p>\n<h3><strong>3. The \u201cI Love Your\u2026\u201d Text<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>This kind of text message can be as PG or R rated as you like; it\u2019s completely up to you. And yes, I will give you examples of both.<\/p>\n<p>Before I do though, it\u2019s important to explain why these kinds of messages make men <strong>fall head over heels<\/strong> for the women sending them.<\/p>\n<p>Here\u2019s the thing, so many men feel like they don\u2019t get enough <strong>compliments<\/strong> from their women.<\/p>\n<p>Now, as much as this is our fault, don\u2019t beat yourself up too much about it.<\/p>\n<p>After all, society\u2019s conditioned the kind of perception where <strong>women<\/strong> are the ones who long and look for compliments, but not men.<\/p>\n<p>But that is <strong>FAR<\/strong> from true.<\/p>\n<p>By taking the time to recognize something about your man, be it his physical self, emotional being, spiritual beliefs, or even his personality in general, it will make him fall in love with you even <strong>MORE<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>That said, you\u2019ll want to <strong>avoid<\/strong> texting the obvious here. I mean, if your man has stunning blue eyes, then chances are he\u2019s heard it all his life so reading those same words from you isn\u2019t going to send him over the moon.<\/p>\n<p>But if you spiced it up with something like, <em>\u201cI love staring into your sapphire eyes. They make me feel as deep as the ocean blue when I\u2019m standing next to you,\u201d<\/em> well, that&#8217;s a <strong>huge<\/strong> improvement.<\/p>\n<p>Again though, try to choose something about your guy that he isn\u2019t used to hearing.<\/p>\n<p>For example, let\u2019s say he has a fiery passion for social justice, you could say something like, <em>\u201cYou carry yourself with such conviction. I find that super hot&#8230;&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Or try this one: <em>&#8220;You&#8217;re such a good guy &#8211; just being around makes me a better person.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<p>But if you want to keep it <strong>physical<\/strong>, then tell him, <em>\u201cYou are so breathtakingly handsome, and that\u2019s the LEAST interesting thing about you.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Here&#8217;s another juicy example: <em>\u201cI love the dip in your hip. Running my fingers <\/em>along<em> it gets me hot and bothered.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<p>I cannot stress enough that <strong>detail<\/strong> is key here, because while it\u2019s one thing to tell a man he\u2019s good-looking, telling him specifically what makes him so attractive will <strong>stroke<\/strong> his ego and get his heart racing.<\/p>\n<p>And remember, guys like to feel like the warrior in a relationship, so keep his <strong>manhood<\/strong> in mind when sending these messages.<\/p>\n<p>The last thing you want to do is send him something that\u2019s going to make him feel emasculated.<\/p>\n<h3><strong>4. The \u201cRecognition Reminder\u201d Text<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>If there\u2019s one thing I talk about a lot in my Devotion System program, it\u2019s making a man feel appreciated.<\/p>\n<p>Without getting into too much detail here, it\u2019s this kind of <strong>recognition<\/strong> that keeps him working to win you over.<\/p>\n<p>I mean, he\u2019s not going to put in a <strong>continuous effort<\/strong> with you if you don\u2019t take the time to <strong>recognize<\/strong> the things he does for you.<\/p>\n<p>Sure, we\u2019re all busy, and yes, it can be hard to find the time to properly <strong>show<\/strong> your guy how much you love the things he does for you.<\/p>\n<p>But the good news is you can do this in an extremely powerful and quick way by texting him.<\/p>\n<h3><strong>So, what is a Recognition Reminder text message?<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>Well, it\u2019s a series of well-thought-out words that you should send your man to let him know that you <strong>DO<\/strong> notice all the things he does for you.<\/p>\n<p>Again, this is a message that you\u2019re going to want to make your own, so take some time to really think about something <strong>amazing<\/strong> your man has specifically done for you.<\/p>\n<p>Of course, you&#8217;ll want to choose something more recent because texting him about something that he did a year ago isn\u2019t going to be as moving as something he did <em>last night<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p>Sure, you can play on the past a bit, but if you\u2019re going to go this route, then be sure to reference something closer to the present as well.<\/p>\n<h3><strong>Here are some examples of Recognition Reminder text messages:<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p><em>\u201cI just wanted to thank you for all the things you do for me. Even though I might not always show it, you mean the world to me.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>\u201cI\u2019m so lucky to have you in my life.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>\u201cI know I can be stubborn sometimes, but thank you for being so patient with me. You make life so much sweeter.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>\u201cI love the way you love me. Thanks for being my number one fan.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Any combination of these will make your guy feel like he\u2019s struck gold.<\/p>\n<h3><strong>5. The \u201cMemory Mover\u201d Text<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>I intentionally saved this text message for last on my list for the simple reason that it\u2019s unlike all other ones I\u2019ve covered.<\/p>\n<p>Where the previous four types of messages focused more on your man, the <strong>Memory Mover<\/strong> is about the two of you, as a <strong>couple<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p><strong>So, how does it work?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Well, for starters, you\u2019re going to <strong>recall a powerful memory<\/strong> you shared together. Next, make a list of how it played out and include every single aspect of it.<\/p>\n<p>If it helps, pretend you\u2019re a journalist reporting on a big story and fill in the who, what, where, when, why and hows. Leave no detail undiscussed.<\/p>\n<p>When reading this text message you guy should be able to see the memory flash before his eyes like an old-time silent film.<\/p>\n<p>This means that you\u2019re going to want to use vivid, descriptive language that will let him easily <strong>imagine<\/strong> the memory you\u2019re reminiscing about, in a way that\u2019s so <strong>powerful<\/strong> he\u2019ll feel like he\u2019s reliving it in your words.<\/p>\n<p>Also, do your best to recall the memory in a present tense, it gives him the chance to really feel like he\u2019s <strong>reliving<\/strong> the moment.<\/p>\n<p>To help you out, here\u2019s an example:<\/p>\n<p><em>\u201cRemember the first time you took me back to your house? We sat inches away from each other on your couch, I could barely keep my hands to myself.&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>When we finally crawled into your bed, the sun was coming up and you wrapped me in your arms and kissed me on the back of my neck&#8230;I still remember how your lips felt on my skin. It was so electrifying and I couldn&#8217;t control what happened next\u2026.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Now, this example isn\u2019t one you can just plug in because, well, if you haven\u2019t shared that moment together then he\u2019s going to think you meant to send the message to someone else and that\u2019s going to be incredibly awkward.<\/p>\n<p>So, while what I just said gives you a taste of the type of text to send, your\u2019s is going to be totally different.<\/p>\n<p>That said, to get you started some good intros could be:<\/p>\n<p><em>\u201cRemember that time\u2026\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>\u201cImagine when we were back in\u2026\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>\u201c&#8230;that time we went to\u2026\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re <strong>setting<\/strong> the scene, so really spell it out for him. Tell him a story that will show your fiery feelings of love, passion and desire.<\/p>\n<p>Oh, and don\u2019t forget to <strong>use sensual words<\/strong> like: feel, touch, taste, lick, quiver, shiver, graze, grope, run, smooth, gentle, sweet, wet, stroke and any other adjectives or descriptive words that will really help <strong>bring your text message to life<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>Believe me, you\u2019ll be glad you did.<\/p>\n<p>Lastly, if you want to really <strong>dig deep<\/strong> into the why&#8217;s and how&#8217;s of making a man commit himself to you 100%, go on\u00a0and check this out right now&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/amy\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-1403\" src=\"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/MYS-DevotionPlayer.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"933\" height=\"420\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/MYS-DevotionPlayer.jpg 933w, https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/MYS-DevotionPlayer-300x135.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/MYS-DevotionPlayer-768x346.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 933px) 100vw, 933px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>By Amy North From Devotion System If you really want to win him over and commit himself to you 100%, go on and check this out right now\u2026 How To Make A Man Obsess Over&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":1446,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_exactmetrics_skip_tracking":false,"_exactmetrics_sitenote_active":false,"_exactmetrics_sitenote_note":"","_exactmetrics_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[17,16],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1439"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1439"}],"version-history":[{"count":9,"href":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1439\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2100,"href":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1439\/revisions\/2100"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1446"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1439"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1439"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1439"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}