{"id":1392,"date":"2018-03-21T03:05:08","date_gmt":"2018-03-21T03:05:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/?p=1392"},"modified":"2018-05-21T02:46:54","modified_gmt":"2018-05-21T02:46:54","slug":"how-to-get-a-player-to-commit","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/how-to-get-a-player-to-commit\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Get A &#8220;Player&#8221; to Commit"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em>By Amy North<\/em><br \/>\n<em>From <a href=\"http:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/amy\">Devotion System<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n<p>If you really want to win him over and commit himself to you 100%, go on and check this out right now\u2026<\/p>\n<h3><em><a href=\"http:\/\/Video: How To Make A Man Obsess Over You\"><strong>How To Make A Man Obsess Over You<\/strong><\/a><\/em><\/h3>\n<h2>So you&#8217;ve been seeing this guy but you know that he&#8217;s a bit of a player, in other words, you&#8217;re not the only woman in his life that said you really like them and want to make them commit to you and only you.<\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">How<\/span> do you do it?<\/p>\n<p>Hey, ladies, my name is Amy North. I&#8217;m a dating coach from Vancouver BC, and today I want to cover a topic that comes up quite a bit and that&#8217;s how to get a player to commit to a relationship now.<\/p>\n<p>(<em>Before we get into it, don&#8217;t forget to check out my <a href=\"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/amy\">Devotion System<\/a>\u00a0later on\u00a0which shows you how to get any guy obsessed with you almost instantly.<\/em>)<\/p>\n<p>Alright, let&#8217;s get started&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>To begin, let&#8217;s jump back to the word &#8220;Player&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p>Urban Dictionary coins the term as &#8220;a male who is skilled at manipulating others especially at seducing women by pretending to care about them when in reality he&#8217;s only interested in sex.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>So, how do you tie this guy down and <strong>make him commit to you<\/strong>?<\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/player.vimeo.com\/video\/252812365\" width=\"640\" height=\"360\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<h3>The secret is to meet his needs in a way that he can&#8217;t on his own.<\/h3>\n<p>Now, I know you&#8217;re probably thinking that this sounds complicated. But when you get to the root of it, it&#8217;s actually quite simple.<\/p>\n<p>Here&#8217;s the thing: all men &#8211; regardless of whether they&#8217;re in a committed relationship or sleeping with a different woman every night &#8211; have similar wants and needs like excitement, approval, and acceptance.<\/p>\n<p>I know it sounds strange, but think about it for a moment.<\/p>\n<p>A guy who&#8217;s sleeping with a different woman every night is looking for the kind of <strong>exciting thrill<\/strong>, and enjoys the <strong>acceptance<\/strong> he feels of knowing that he can get so many different women.<\/p>\n<p>On the other hand, a man in a committed relationship stays happy when he still feels <strong>excited<\/strong> about growing together with his partner, and enjoys the <strong>acceptance<\/strong> he feels that his woman wants him.<\/p>\n<p>As you can see here, <em>both<\/em> men are trying to have the same needs met, but they&#8217;re going about it <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">differently<\/span>&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>So in order to get a player to commit to you, you have to know how to meet his needs in a <strong>greater way<\/strong> than he&#8217;d be able to.<\/p>\n<p>In other words, you need to bring something to his life that <strong>other women<\/strong> <em>can&#8217;t<\/em>. And when you do, he&#8217;ll only want YOU.<\/p>\n<p>Once he does commit to you, it&#8217;s important that you keep adding value to his life. It&#8217;s crucial that you <strong>understand and fulfill<\/strong> his needs.<\/p>\n<p>For instance, things like keeping the chase alive between you and showing him that you appreciate him, will keep him committed.<\/p>\n<p>But that&#8217;s just the tip of the iceberg&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>If you <em>really<\/em> want to scratch past the surface and <strong>dig deep<\/strong> into the why&#8217;s and how&#8217;s of making a man commit himself to you 100%, go on\u00a0and check this out right <strong>NOW<\/strong>:<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/amy\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-1403\" src=\"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/MYS-DevotionPlayer.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"933\" height=\"420\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/MYS-DevotionPlayer.jpg 933w, https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/MYS-DevotionPlayer-300x135.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/MYS-DevotionPlayer-768x346.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 933px) 100vw, 933px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>By Amy North From Devotion System If you really want to win him over and commit himself to you 100%, go on and check this out right now\u2026 How To Make A Man Obsess Over&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":1397,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_exactmetrics_skip_tracking":false,"_exactmetrics_sitenote_active":false,"_exactmetrics_sitenote_note":"","_exactmetrics_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[15,19],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1392"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1392"}],"version-history":[{"count":14,"href":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1392\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1576,"href":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1392\/revisions\/1576"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1397"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1392"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1392"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1392"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}