{"id":1278,"date":"2018-01-22T14:42:38","date_gmt":"2018-01-22T14:42:38","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/?p=1278"},"modified":"2018-05-21T02:50:20","modified_gmt":"2018-05-21T02:50:20","slug":"3-most-irresistible-traits-of-cleopatra-do-you-have-these","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/3-most-irresistible-traits-of-cleopatra-do-you-have-these\/","title":{"rendered":"3 Most Irresistible Traits Of Cleopatra (Do you have these?)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em>By Carlos Cavallo<\/em><br \/>\n<em>Author of <a href=\"http:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/go\/idesireb\">Irresistible Desire<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Marilyn Monroe\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Audrey Hepburn\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Rita Hayworth\u2026<\/p>\n<h1><span id=\"Over_the_decades_these_women_have_been_known_for_their_magnetic_aura_and_to-die-for_looks\">Over the decades, these women have been known for their magnetic aura and to-die-for looks.<\/span><\/h1>\n<p>Simply mentioning their names will already make you think of traits like class, sophistication \u2013 and of course,\u00a0<em>undeniable beauty<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p>But there\u2019s\u00a0<strong>another name<\/strong>\u00a0that stands the test of time.<\/p>\n<p>Turn the clock a couple of\u00a0<strong>thousand years<\/strong>\u00a0back, and you\u2019ll find one particular lady who epitomizes qualities like grace, femininity, and irresistible charm.<\/p>\n<p>You could even say she\u00a0set the bar\u00a0for what it means to be truly drop-dead gorgeous inside-out.<\/p>\n<p>She was so irresistible, in fact, that powerful men literally\u00a0went to war and handed her the keys to their kingdoms\u00a0<strong>just<\/strong>\u00a0to have the pleasure of her company.<\/p>\n<h2><span id=\"And_that_woman_was_none_other_than_Cleopatra\">And that woman was none other than Cleopatra.<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Only she had the power to seduce the likes of Julius Caesar and Mark\u00a0Antony. When these guys walked into a room (or battlefield), they commanded\u00a0<strong>respect<\/strong>\u00a0from their comrades \u2013 and\u00a0<strong>petrified their enemies<\/strong>\u00a0with fear.<\/p>\n<p>It didn\u2019t matter though \u2013 they were\u00a0defenseless\u00a0against Cleopatra\u2019s feminine wiles.<\/p>\n<p>For the longest time,\u00a0<strong>NO ONE<\/strong>\u00a0knew what she\u00a0<em>really<\/em>\u00a0looked like. There have only been accounts of the dalliances she\u2019s had \u2013 and how it shaped the course of human history.<\/p>\n<p>Her actual appearance was a\u00a0<strong>mystery<\/strong>\u00a0\u2013 until archaeologists made a jaw-dropping discovery, that is.<\/p>\n<p>You see, after they unearthed an ancient bust carved with Cleopatra\u2019s name, it turned out that the most reveled name in seduction\u00a0<em>wasn\u2019t<\/em>some flawless goddess.<\/p>\n<p>Take a look for yourself:<\/p>\n<p>Ok, so she\u2019s\u00a0not\u00a0actually BAD-looking. But let\u2019s be honest \u2013 she\u00a0<strong>doesn\u2019t<\/strong>\u00a0look like the sizzling sexpot you imagined her to be.<\/p>\n<p>For all the hype surrounding her, Cleopatra didn\u2019t look like a dolled-up celebrity or impossibly good-looking movie star. In fact, she\u2019s really rather\u00a0<strong>plain<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>So\u00a0<strong>how<\/strong>\u00a0did she do it? If it\u00a0<em>wasn\u2019t<\/em>\u00a0her beauty, then how did she pull it off?<\/p>\n<p>How did this average-looking woman\u00a0<strong>outfox the competition<\/strong>\u00a0and turn the world\u2019s most powerful men into clay in her hands?<\/p>\n<p>Was it some ancient Egyptian spell?<\/p>\n<p>\u2013 Drugs?<\/p>\n<p>\u2013 Mind control?<\/p>\n<p>\u2013 All three???<\/p>\n<p>Not at all.<\/p>\n<p>The secret behind Cleopatra\u2019s charm had to do with certain\u00a0<strong>personal traits<\/strong>\u00a0that made it IMPOSSIBLE for men NOT to fall for her.<\/p>\n<p>It was her\u00a0<em>authentic<\/em>, dyed-in-the-wool personality which made her the legend she is today.<\/p>\n<p>In particular, she had THREE traits that made it dead simple for her to attract\u00a0<strong>ANY<\/strong>\u00a0man she wanted:<\/p>\n<h3><span id=\"Cleopatra_Trait_1_Understand_How_Attraction_Works\">Cleopatra Trait #1: Understand How Attraction Works<\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Think about the last time you fell for a guy.<\/p>\n<p>Did this hottie check off all the boxes in your\u00a0<strong>detailed list<\/strong>\u00a0of qualities you want in a guy?<\/p>\n<p>Probably not, because no one really puts\u00a0<strong>that much<\/strong>\u00a0conscious thought into it.<\/p>\n<p>When you saw him, your subconscious\u00a0already told you\u00a0he\u2019s attractive.<\/p>\n<p>It had nothing to do with logic \u2013 you JUST knew.<\/p>\n<p>End of story.<\/p>\n<p>So how do you flip the\u00a0<strong>switch<\/strong>\u00a0in a man\u2019s brain that triggers his\u00a0<em>instinctive desire<\/em>\u00a0for you?<\/p>\n<p>Well, it starts with one word: VALUE.<\/p>\n<p>Getting a guy interested in you boils down to this simple concept that most women\u00a0<strong>take for granted<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>What do I mean by this?<\/p>\n<h4>When you have this simple trait, people will actually experience a teeny tiny bit of PAIN when they\u2019re not near YOU.<\/h4>\n<p>That\u2019s right, men found Cleopatra\u2019s mere presence\u00a0<strong>INTOXICATING<\/strong>. They knew her VALUE and\u00a0<strong>couldn\u2019t bear<\/strong>\u00a0to be away from her.<\/p>\n<p>To create this value for yourself, you first need to cultivate a\u00a0lifestyle where you\u2019re firing on\u00a0<strong>ALL<\/strong>\u00a0cylinders.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re not just working on one aspect of your life, but seeking to improve yourself on\u00a0<strong>multiple levels<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>This\u00a0<strong>includes<\/strong>\u00a0your career, hobbies, passions. The\u00a0same\u00a0goes for the relationships you have with your family, friends and colleagues.<\/p>\n<p>All of these form the bulk of your\u00a0<strong>attractive lifestyle<\/strong>, so it\u2019s wise to\u00a0nurture\u00a0this part of you.<\/p>\n<p>On the surface, it might not seem to have a\u00a0<strong>direct effect<\/strong>\u00a0on dating men. However, all of this\u00a0<em>adds up<\/em>\u00a0to the passionate, authentic and magnetic personality that guys\u00a0<strong>CRAVE<\/strong>\u00a0in a woman.<\/p>\n<p>More importantly, this sends a very\u00a0<em>clear signal<\/em>\u00a0to guys that make them think this one feeling:<\/p>\n<p>\u201cHey, this woman is pretty interesting. Being around her adds VALUE to my life. I should hang out with her.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Saying that out loud\u00a0<strong>doesn\u2019t<\/strong>\u00a0sound like the most logical statement, does it?<\/p>\n<p>But THIS is what guys are\u00a0<strong>unconsciously thinking<\/strong>\u00a0when they meet a woman they like.<\/p>\n<p>(Like I said, logic and reasoning go out the window when it comes to dating and attraction.)<\/p>\n<h3><span id=\"Cleopatra_Trait_2_Win_Him_With_Confidence\">Cleopatra Trait #2: Win Him With Confidence<\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Yes, I know that \u201cbe confident\u201d is one of the most\u00a0<strong>worn-out<\/strong>\u00a0phrases in the history of dating advice. I can sense your eyes rolling\u2026<\/p>\n<p>But let me offer\u00a0<strong>another angle<\/strong>\u00a0to this all-important ingredient to attraction\u2026<\/p>\n<h4>The kind of confidence I\u2019m talking about is the lack of FEAR around men.<\/h4>\n<p>You might be\u00a0<strong>thinking<\/strong>\u00a0that you\u2019re\u00a0<strong>not afraid<\/strong>\u00a0of guys, but I don\u2019t mean it in the physical or immediate sense. The reality is that a lot of women are\u00a0<strong>afraid of not being approved<\/strong>\u00a0by men.<\/p>\n<p>They\u2019re worried that deep inside, they\u2019re not worthy of a guy\u2019s time and attention. This is where a lot of problems start when it comes to attracting guys.<\/p>\n<p>If you feel that, on some level, you need to\u00a0<strong>PROVE<\/strong>\u00a0your worth to a guy, then you\u2019ll undermine the value you\u2019re trying to create for yourself.<\/p>\n<h4>Here are some of the things women do that create this effect:<\/h4>\n<p>\u2013 Doing things for the purpose of making him like you\u2026<\/p>\n<p>\u2013 Being nice to the point of compromising your time, well-being and life balance. I call this being OVER-nice\u2026<\/p>\n<p>\u2013 Changing your opinion or something about yourself just to please him \u2013 and not because it aligns with your values and principles\u2026<\/p>\n<p>So confidence is really about being secure in the fact you\u00a0don\u2019t need to manipulate or play games with a guy just to make him commit to you. You know for a fact that you\u2019re\u00a0already\u00a0a WHOLE person without him.<\/p>\n<p>Having a relationship isn\u2019t meant to fill an emptiness in your life. Striving to create an\u00a0<strong>engaging lifestyle<\/strong>\u00a0is the best way to fill those gaps\u00a0<em>without<\/em>\u00a0a man\u2019s approval.<\/p>\n<p>Ask yourself \u2013\u00a0<strong>what<\/strong>\u00a0would I do if I knew that I would be\u00a0<strong>single forever<\/strong>?<\/p>\n<p>Oh, I know, it\u2019s not something you want to think about, and the reality is that it\u2019s EXTREMELY\u00a0<strong>unlikely<\/strong>. But if adopt that attitude, you\u2019d be surprised how it would\u00a0<strong>attract men<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<h4>Healthy and stable relationships are built on a mindset that says, \u201cMy life is awesome right now. However, you\u2019re pretty fun to hang out with because you\u2019re the kind of guy who enriches my life.\u201d<\/h4>\n<p>Women who operate the other way often find themselves\u00a0<strong>desperately chasing<\/strong>\u00a0after guys. They end up turning off men because they\u2019re perceived as\u00a0<strong>needy and emotionally insecure<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>On the other hand, Cleopatra had that\u00a0<strong>confident vibe<\/strong>\u00a0about her, and men were COMPELLED to try to win that \u201cCool Guy\u201d position in her life. (I know, hard to think of Caesar and Marc Anthony trying to be cool, but you can bet they were\u00a0chumps\u00a0for her.)<\/p>\n<p>And that leads us to:<\/p>\n<h3><span id=\"Cleopatra_Trait_3_Be_a_Woman\">Cleopatra Trait #3: Be a Woman<\/span><\/h3>\n<p>You\u2019re probably thinking, \u201cWhat?? OF COURSE I\u2019m a woman. What are you getting at?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>After all, it seems like a\u00a0<strong>no-brainer<\/strong>, right?<\/p>\n<p>All you have to do is be a member of the female species and any red-blooded male should come knocking at your door.<\/p>\n<p>But allow me to\u00a0<strong>peel back the layers<\/strong>\u00a0on what \u201cbeing a woman\u201d means\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Here\u2019s the thing: If you\u00a0<strong>don\u2019t embrace<\/strong>\u00a0your femininity, then you\u2019ll\u00a0<strong>NEVER<\/strong>\u00a0show up on his radar.<\/p>\n<p>This won\u2019t be the most politically correct thing you\u2019ll hear from me, but you\u00a0<strong>can\u2019t fight biology<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<h4>As far as attraction is concerned, there IS a reason why men and women ARE different.<\/h4>\n<p>He wants something he\u00a0<strong>DOESN\u2019T<\/strong>\u00a0have, which is your soft, sensual and\u00a0feminine\u00a0side.<\/p>\n<p>Men are\u00a0<strong>hardwired<\/strong>\u00a0to seek the yin to their yang, if you will.<\/p>\n<p>The reality is that men DON\u2019T WANT you to put your tough,\u00a0<strong>masculine traits<\/strong>\u00a0front and center when it comes to romance. He gets that\u00a0<strong>all the time<\/strong>\u00a0from his\u00a0<strong>guy friends<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>No, he wants a nice, soft, loving\u00a0<strong>WOMAN<\/strong>\u00a0in his world.<\/p>\n<p>There\u2019s\u00a0<strong>nothing wrong<\/strong>\u00a0with being a woman, and it doesn\u2019t make you LESS of a woman to\u00a0<strong>stop trying<\/strong>\u00a0to be like\u00a0<em>one of the guys<\/em>. We feel\u00a0<strong>SPECIAL<\/strong>\u00a0and\u00a0<strong>ACCEPTED<\/strong>\u00a0when we get to see the softer and more vulnerable part of you.<\/p>\n<p>This has\u00a0nothing\u00a0to do with equality. Obviously, women have\u00a0<strong>made huge strides<\/strong>\u00a0over the last few decades and are finally enjoying the same privileges and rights of their male counterparts.<\/p>\n<h4>But if you allow him to be \u201cThe Man\u201d in the relationship, then he\u2019ll be eternally grateful for that \u2013 and to you.<\/h4>\n<p>Guys have this\u00a0<strong>weird thing<\/strong>\u00a0about being able to fulfill that masculine role \u2013 namely his ability to\u00a0<strong>provide and protect<\/strong>\u00a0for you.<\/p>\n<p>For example, we get a kick out of using our\u00a0<strong>manly strength<\/strong>\u00a0to move your huge flatscreen TV for you \u2013 or kill that spider in your garage.<\/p>\n<p>When you get a case of the sniffles, we\u2019ll\u00a0<strong>swoop into action<\/strong>\u00a0and get you warm soup and a blanket.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s in our blood. We won\u2019t tell you, but we\u00a0<strong>LOVE the feeling<\/strong>\u00a0of being able to do those\u00a0<em>little things<\/em>\u00a0for our partner.<\/p>\n<p>Men\u00a0won\u2019t\u00a0ever complain about having to be a man for you.<\/p>\n<p>Sure, you can do this for yourself, we know that. Yet, if you\u00a0<strong>LET US<\/strong>\u00a0do it anyway, then you\u2019re giving us the feminine woman we\u2019re\u00a0crazy about.<\/p>\n<p>Now, these three irresistible Cleopatra traits we just covered will push you in the\u00a0<strong>right direction<\/strong>. When you start showing these traits, you\u2019ll know the secret to Cleopatra\u2019s allure\u2026<\/p>\n<p>But what if you could take it to the next level? How would you like to\u00a0<strong>POSSESS her charm<\/strong>\u00a0and magnetic power over men?<\/p>\n<p>What made Cleopatra the \u201c<strong>complete package<\/strong>\u201d to the men of her time was her ability to get them to drop their guard. She could get the\u00a0<strong>toughest<\/strong>, battle-hardened guy to drop that defensive wall and\u00a0open his heart to her.<\/p>\n<h4>She did it WITHOUT playing mind games or being dishonest with men.\u00a0Cleopatra did it with INTEGRITY and remained true to who she was.<\/h4>\n<p>And they LOVED her for it!<\/p>\n<p>The good news is that she didn\u2019t take this secret with her to the great beyond\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Even today, some women\u00a0<strong>know her secrets<\/strong>. They\u2019re applying this life-changing magical magnetism to\u00a0<strong>get the guy<\/strong>\u00a0of their dreams.<\/p>\n<p>If you want to discover this\u00a0<strong>simple<\/strong>\u00a0yet\u00a0<strong>devastating<\/strong>\u00a0approach to making your man feel\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/go\/idesireb\">irresistible desire<\/a>\u00a0for you, check out this free presentation\u2026<\/p>\n<h3><a href=\"http:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/go\/idesireb\">He won\u2019t know what hit him \u2013 click here to watch the video NOW<\/a>.<\/h3>\n<div id=\"shr_canvas2\" class=\"shareaholic-canvas shareaholic-ui shareaholic-resolved-canvas ng-scope\" data-app-id=\"12746011\" data-app-id-name=\"post_below_content\" data-app=\"share_buttons\" data-title=\"3 Most Irresistible Traits Of Cleopatra (Do you have these?)\" data-link=\"https:\/\/www.datingadviceguru.com\/3-most-irresistible-traits-of-cleopatra-do-you-have-these\/\" data-summary=\"\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/go\/idesireb\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-1194\" src=\"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/MYS-IDesireB.jpg\" alt=\"Irresistible Desire\" width=\"933\" height=\"420\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/MYS-IDesireB.jpg 933w, https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/MYS-IDesireB-300x135.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/MYS-IDesireB-768x346.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 933px) 100vw, 933px\" \/><\/a><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>By Carlos Cavallo Author of Irresistible Desire Marilyn Monroe\u2026 Audrey Hepburn\u2026 Rita Hayworth\u2026 Over the decades, these women have been known for their magnetic aura and to-die-for looks. 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