{"id":106,"date":"2012-11-07T23:31:16","date_gmt":"2012-11-07T23:31:16","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/?p=106"},"modified":"2018-05-26T12:51:44","modified_gmt":"2018-05-26T12:51:44","slug":"how-to-keep-the-losers-out-of-your-life","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/women\/blog\/how-to-keep-the-losers-out-of-your-life\/","title":{"rendered":"How To Keep the Losers Out Of Your Life"},"content":{"rendered":"

By Mirabelle Summers
\nAuthor of Get A Great Guy Guide<\/em><\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n

If you want genuine men and not just any man, this will challenge your beliefs about love and attraction, and show you the way to become a seduction success story,\u00a0<\/strong>check this out…<\/strong><\/p>\n

Free Video: Get A Great Guy Guide<\/strong><\/a><\/em><\/h3>\n

How To Keep the Losers Out Of Your Life<\/h2>\n

One of the biggest challenges of giving relationship advice to people is telling them like it is while not being too blunt about it.<\/p>\n

Honestly, I don\u2019t mind sharing my insights whenever the guy in their life is giving them some grief. But the thing I\u2019ve noticed with these poor gals is that their problems aren\u2019t just AVOIDABLE, but also caused by their OWN doing.<\/p>\n

At first, you\u2019d think these girls have the worst of luck when it comes to men. Why else would they wind up with one jerk after another?<\/p>\n

But the hard truth is that these losers are in their lives because they ALLOWED it to happen.<\/p>\n

They may not have any control over their guy\u2019s jerky behavior, but ENABLING it is another matter. Sometimes, I feel like telling them that it\u2019s THEIR fault for putting up with it, but constructive advice is a lot more effective than playing the blame game.<\/p>\n

Based on my own experience, I\u2019ve learned a little trick to break the nasty cycle of dating the same jerk over and over. After I made a subtle but powerful shift in my attitude, the right kind of men came into my life \u2013 while keeping the wrong ones out.<\/p>\n

Know what that trick is? It\u2019s called Taking It One Step At A Time<\/strong><\/em>.<\/p>\n

Quality guys understand that winning over a girl is a process that happens in phases. They\u2019re sensible enough to make sure a girl\u2019s comfortable enough before turning up things a notch.<\/p>\n

In other words, these guys know it takes work to get into a healthy and stable relationship – they don\u2019t take a girl\u2019s affection for granted.<\/p>\n

So, attracting this type of man means not rushing into a relationship (or his bed) at the first chance you get.<\/p>\n

It also means not putting your entire life on hold for him just to make sure that he sticks around. If you\u2019re so worried that he might bail on you if you don\u2019t give him 110% of your time, then you should ask yourself if he\u2019s worth keeping in the first place.<\/p>\n

Any man worth your time isn\u2019t going to force you to cancel your yoga class, lunch with the girls or any other important stuff in your life before he came along.<\/p>\n

<\/a>Backing off a little and letting the courtship run its course will do you a whole lot of good. You don\u2019t have to kiss him on the first date (or more), take a sick day from work just to see him, or start cooking him five-course meals when he comes over for dinner.<\/p>\n

Pace yourself \u2013 a slow burn is better than pulling out all the stops for him. Besides, there\u2019s no fun in that for him.<\/p>\n

A man doesn\u2019t have much of an incentive to pursue a girl who runs herself ragged just to get his approval. Remember, great relationships are only possible when the people involved are on EQUAL footing.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re willing to take your time and get a feel of each other (figuratively speaking) before committing to something serious, it shows that you value yourself.<\/p>\n

Think of it this way: a self-respecting attitude acts as a sort of filter that separates the wheat from the chaff.<\/p>\n

As for the short-term guys with the habit of leaving women high and dry, they\u2019ll take their business elsewhere rather than stick around and win you over.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t lose any sleep or waste any tears over them, sweetie \u2013 after all, it\u2019s their loss.<\/p>\n

If you’re ready to take the plunge and learn why men pull away – Click here to watch my free video presentation…<\/strong><\/p>\n

Why Men Pull Away\u2026and What Makes Them STAY In Love (VIDEO)<\/strong><\/a><\/h2>\n

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