By Brad Browning
From The Ex Factor Guide
If you can’t tell for sure if you’re over analyzing your ex’s behavior, then check this out…
Is Your Ex Dating Someone New? That Could Help You Win Them Back!
Are you trying to get back together with your ex but here she’s now dating someone new?
In fact, I’m going to tell you how this new lover that your ex is seeing now could actually help you win them back in the long run.
Let’s start by talking about rebounds.
In most cases, the new guy or girl that your ex is dating now is just a “rebound.”
A “rebound” relationship is essentially exactly what the name suggests it’s a ‘quick fix’ for your ex to get through the sadness and loneliness that they’re experiencing in the wake of the break-up.
Keep in mind by the way, that breaking up something can be just as difficult or even more difficult and gut-wrenching than being broken up with.
So that means that even though your ex may have been the one to initiate the breakup, it’s likely that they’re just as our broken as you are right now so keep that in mind that they’re there going through the something you are.
What’s the easiest way to get through the difficult you know post-breakup emotions and depression?
Occupy your time keep yourself busy and find someone new. In all likelihood, if your ex has replaced you replaced you with someone new quickly after breaking up with you then this person is probably just a “rebound” to help them get over the break-up blues.
And move on and believe it or not, this the rebound relationship of this type can often be good news for you if you want to get back together with your ex.
Yes, I know what you‘re thinking right now, you’re asking yourself “How the hell can my ex replacing me with someone new lose, help me get my ex back.”
First of all, assuming that this new person your ex is dating is just a rebound. Some guy or girl that your ex met at a nightclub and hit it off with then it’s nothing serious.
They’re probably not doing you know candlelit dinners at fancy Italian restaurants, they’re just hanging out now and then, relying on the physical side of things their relationship to maintain that bond and stay together it’s just really a temporary thing to help your ex to get over the break-up.
I’m sorry, I know it may be painful to hear that your ex is just seeing this new person for the sex but that’s actually a good thing for you because it means they probably don’t have a ton in common.
And they certainly wouldn’t at this point have the same kind of bond that you and your ex had during the heyday of your relationship.
Scientists have proven that most rebound relationships last between three to five weeks long and that’s obviously certainly on a hard and fast rule but it does tend to stay true roughly for most scenarios.
That means that it’s extremely likely that your ex’s rebound relationship will be ending soon. Once the rebound does end, your ex is going to have to face the reality of this situation, basically just putting off although the depression and the loneliness and suppressing that by seeing this new person.
But once that relation relationship ends all of a sudden, these feelings will come flooding back and all of a sudden, your ex will have no one around to keep their mind off of you and they’ll have to face those feelings.
So, while your ex has been delaying this inevitable surge of heartache and loneliness, you’ve already been dealing with those emotions.
You’re already on the road to recovery.
It’s time for you to pounce because your ex is feeling you know ultra-depressed and lonely and because they just spend a few weeks dating somebody who wasn’t nearly as compatible with them as you are.
You’re probably going to start looking like a very good option so with your ex in it in a fragile state and looking for a quick fix to heal the heartache that they’ve been basically just postponing thanks to this rebound relationship you could pounce on this situation by moving in and re-establishing communication with your ex at this point.
Now don’t actually mention anything about the rebound relationship. Don’t tell them if you want to get back together.
Instead, just simply start talking with them again, in a casual, friendly upbeat way. The goal is just to remind your ex that you’re still around, you’re still a great person you know that they once shared a really deep romantic connection with.
And that getting back together with you is an option for them if they want to have quick and easy way to make all the pain go away. All they have to do to get over it is just to get back together with you.
And at this point to them within the depth of their heartache and loneliness, you’re probably going to seem like a really good option in a really easy way to make all those feelings go away.
In a sense then you’re using your ex’s rebound relationship to make yourself look good and you’re subtly reminding your ex that love isn’t an easy thing to find and what they had with you was special and shouldn’t just be thrown away.
In summary, if you see your ex with somebody new, don’t panic celebrate because if you play your cards right the rebound relationship might just help you win them back.
And finally, if you’re serious about winning your ex back, if this is the person that you want to have by your side you know 20, 30 or 50 years down the road then you should consider investing in my Ex Factor guide program.
It’s a step-by-step system that’ll teach you the ins and outs covering what every what-if scenario and I promise it’s totally affordable too it’s not going to cost you an arm and a leg. If you’re interested in that, then I highly suggest you go check out the free video below. It will give you all the information you need to start winning them back today.