By Brad Browning
From The Ex Factor Guide
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The Ex Factor Guide
How to Steal Your Ex From Their New Boyfriend or Girlfriend (Sneaky Tricks Revealed)
We’ve all been there before, you’re minding own your business, struggling to get through the day without thinking about your ex and then out of the blue, you run with them in the supermarket, kissing someone you’ve never seen before.
Crossing paths can be frustrated enough, but if you see or hear about your ex with somebody new the pain can be almost unbearable. And you might think that your dreams getting back together with his person are now dashed forever.
Actually, you’re wrong, just because your ex is already dating somebody new, doesn’t mean your chances of getting him or her back are dashed forever.
On the contrary, this new person can actually help you get back together with your ex. In fact, you wouldn’t have to steal them back at all.
Why your ex is dating somebody new is possibly a good thing for your chances of winning them back?
Often, people who recently been through a break up will try to jump into a new romance as quickly as possible. You probably heard the term “Rebound Relationship” before.
The term rebound is definitely an appropriate one to describe as type of relationship because it’s basically means that you’re quickly finding a new lover after the break up in order to suppress the heartache and loneliness that follow.
If it’s only been a month or two since your break up and you’re in a situation where your ex is already dating somebody new then it’s very likely that this new guy or girl your ex with is a rebound.
Rebound relationships are rarely successful. In rare cases, the rebound may have eventually turn into something more genuine but that’s definitely unlikely scenario.
Most of the time, rebound simply die away when they’ve served their purpose which of course is to help your ex to cope with your post break up blues.
Think about it, if finding a new lover were easy and took just a matter of days, there would be many single people out there.
The reality is most people aren’t compatible with one another and it’s extremely likely that your ex and this new person aren’t right for one another. As a result, the relationship is a dead-end street and it won’t last long.
Most rebound relationships last 3 to 5 weeks and the few that survive longer will typically tend to slowly die away a month or two. The physical attraction between your ex and their new lover will remain, I am sorry if it’s a painful news to hear but that doesn’t mean they’re going to fall in love and live happily ever after.
On the contrary, in fact, they will probably dump one another in no time at all. Now, on to the juiciest part of this video which is “How to use your ex’s rebound relationship to help win him or her back?”
We’ve already established the fact that the vast majority of rebound relationships only last 3 to 5 weeks and then come to abrupt halt, so if your ex is rebound is like most and it’s less than a month away from ending.
When your ex does end up breaking up with their rebound partner, he or she will be as almost depressed as they were when they originally broke up with you.
In fact, sometimes the end of the rebound relationship can be even worst than the initial break up it was intended to cover up, why?
Well, it’s simple really. Your ex was sad and lonely so he or she tried to replace you with this new person. When they realized they didn’t have any real future with this new guy or girl, those break up emotions will come flooding back.
Only this time, your ex will also discover finding true love and a meaningful relationship is not as easy as they have expected when they first broke up with you.
This new rebound lover wasn’t any good, so how many more people will your ex will have to date before they find somebody who is compatible?
This is where you could probably start to see why your ex’s rebound relationship is actually good news for you and your chances of getting back together with your ex?
Because they’re now sad and lonely and the rebound has ended, your ex is now vulnerable and having been through superficial meaningless relationship with somebody else ready, he or she is probably starting to have doubts, whether it’s the right decision to break up with you in the first place?
“Crap, that person I was dating as a rebound sure was a boring loser!” your ex will think to themselves after the rebound relationship ends.
“I wonder if my ex was actually the right one for me? After all, we were happy most of the time we were together and things were definitely better than in my short-lived rebound relationship!”
Because your ex is having the second thoughts and doubting their decision to end the relationship with you, you’re in a perfect position to re-establish communication.
Your mission at this point should be slowly but surely shift your ex’s image of you, the one residing at the back of his or her mind will pop up when you hear your name into something positive and desirable.
By taking advantage of the fact that you suddenly look like a great option in contrast to the loser the were dating as a rebound, you could make yourself look like a much more desirable, logical choice for your ex.
Remember at this point they’re still coping with their breakup and feeling heartbroken so getting back together with you is one way that your ex can dull the pain that they’re feeling now that the relationship is over and suddenly faced with being single and lonely.
Like I said, your goal is to pay yourself and start contrast to this new person your ex had been dating during the rebound. For men, I call this psychological rewiring process “Alpha Attraction”, for women, I refer to it as “Magnetic Attraction”.
There’re a few key differences between men and women in each process but in both cases it’s all about subtlety changes your ex’s feelings about you.
You can learn more about the system in the full-length video on my website www.BreakupBrad.com
Please do yourself a favor and do checkout that video, you might make the difference between winning back your ex or watching them walk out of your life for good.
Now at this point, many of you watching this right now might be skeptical about your ex’s new relationship. You might be thinking that this man or woman your ex is seeing isn’t just a rebound. Certainly, that is a possibility and there are some cases where rebound relationships can blossom into something more meaningful and long-lasting.
But most times, that’s not the case and people jump into rebound relationships quickly after the breakup, tend to lose interest in this new person fairly and rapidly.
But if you do want my opinion on your specific situation then you can leave a comment below or you could work with me on going basis by signing up for my personal coaching service.
If you’re interested in learning about the details on how to get my advices as you go through the process on winning back your ex, head to BreakupBrad.com/coaching and again I’ll put the link on the description below the video.
I want to give you word of warning, if you want your ex back then do not, DO NOT say anything to try and sabotage your ex’s new relationship.
Don’t confront this new person your ex is dating, don’t insult or distant in front of your ex and don’t talk openly with mutual friends about your ex’s new relationship or your intentions in trying to get back together.
All the stuff I’ve been talking about this video and everything in my Ex Factor Guide program is designed to be done subtlety and gradually. Slowly using a few sneaky, psychological tactics like the “Alpha Attraction and Magnetic Attraction stuff I’ve mentioned earlier.
Slowly rebuild your ex’s level of attraction for you until it reaches the point where your ex decides on his or her own accord to suggest to get back together.
I highly suggest you go check out the free video below. It will give you all the information you need to start winning them back today.