By Brad Browning
From The Ex Factor Guide
If you can’t tell for sure if you’re over analyzing your ex’s behavior, then check this out…
How To Seduce Your Ex-Girlfriend (And Get Her Back Into Your Bed)
How can I convince my ex-girlfriend to have sex with me again?
TODAY, I’m here to answer that question!
I’m going to teach you how to reinvigorate the sexual chemistry between you and your ex-girlfriend.
So let’s get right into it.
If you just want to sleep with your ex-girlfriend then you’re going to have to remember a few things first.
#1. If she was the one that broke up with you then you need to realize that a large chunk of the attraction has been lost
A woman’s decision to break up with you is almost always going to be directly correlated with how much emotional attraction she has for you. If there’s no attraction then there’s no relationship so keep this in mind while you’re trying to seduce your ex-girlfriend.
You can’t simply walk up to her and get it on without rebuilding a significant amount of emotional attraction first and I’ll tell you how to do that in just a second
#2. Engage in my “No Contact” strategy to regain the emotional attraction
If your ex just broke up with you then you’re going to have to engage in no contact, there’s no other way around it if your ex just made the decision to move on with her life then her emotional attraction for you at this point is very low.
In order to raise this attraction level, you’re going to have to vanish off her radar completely, how do you do this? Well you obviously have to stop contacting her and ignoring her if she contacts you so don’t text her, don’t call her and don’t Facebook her just stay out of her life for now and keep her out of yours.
You might think this won’t work but it’s actually extremely powerful. See directly after a relationship, women are especially vulnerable to loneliness
So by disappearing for a little while you’re going to take advantage of this fact, do this right and she’ll be far more susceptible to your seduction attempts later on down the road
#3. You have to disguise yourself as a friend
After an appropriate period of time is past it’s time to reach out. but you don’t want to turn on the flirting just yet, your ex-girlfriend will be definitely suspicious of you and will probably unlikely to respond to any of your advances.
All you want to do is establish a friendly meetup, so give her an excuse any excuse to come to your place or go to her place for something friendly. You know maybe you two were both into Pokémon and I knew one just came out I’m see that’s a stupid example but you get the picture, you need to somehow make the meetup seem non-threatening.
So you know send her something a message like “Hey, there’s a new episode of Game of Thrones tonight. Wanna watch it?” sounds pretty innocuous, right?
And at this point innocuous is trying what you’re actually going for that’s what you want.
There’s a lot of other things you can do and say to increase the likelihood of your ex-girlfriend wanting you to hang out with you again, so if you want to get more details you want to learn how to build that attraction just go over to BreakupBrad.com and you can where you can watch my full comprehensive video on how to seduce your ex-girlfriend back into your bed.
#4. When you meet up, it’s time to flirt
Most men have absolutely no idea how to flirt and for a single guy like you and I’m hoping you’re single if you want to sleep with an ex then flirting is the skill that’s invaluable.
It might program the ex-factor guide I review all the secrets of how to flirt with women to the point where she can’t help but feel an uncontrollable attraction for you.
The most important flirting tips:
#1. Eye contact
Maintain eye contact with her as much as you can.
#2. Touch her
For example, when you’re talking to her about something you know exciting or funny just lightly touch her elbow.
#3. Speak slowly
If you’re talking way too quickly you’ll appear you know nervous and uncomfortable so make sure you always appear calm.
#4. Make funny sexual innuendos
The more she thinks about sex the more she’ll begin to want it.
Those are four tips that should get you started but again there’s a lot more to it so if you want to check out my video it’s at BreakupBrad.com and you can learn more about building attraction.
#5. Kiss her
When she starts becoming receptive to your flirting go in for the kill and just kiss her.
There is a very good chance she’ll pull away when you go in to kiss her but whatever you, do not seem fazed by this just laugh it off if she pulls away and continue talking what we were just talking about.
There’s a good thing she’ll say you know a good chance you’ll say something along the lines of wait what is this? what’s going on? why’d you do that? And if she does ask those questions just say, you know it’s just a kiss and continue kissing her. If you continue plowing through you’ll have no problem seducing your ex-girlfriend and making her want to sleep with you.
But don’t get too excited or get ahead of yourself and give back all the power to your ex right away, take it slow and apply the techniques I’ve outlined in my Ex Factor Program to build attraction and turn a simple ‘hangout’ into a new, stronger relationship.