When you\u2019re in a crowd with dozens of other men, it\u2019s hard to be the one guy that the pretty girl in the room gives a second look.<\/p>\n
She\u2019s got a bevy of attractive men to choose from and you have to do something to catch her eye. So just how do you go about doing that?<\/p>\n
There are classic mistakes that a lot of guys make\u2014don\u2019t be one of them. Avoid these certain pitfalls and walk out with her number by the end of the night!<\/p>\n
(1) Compliment her\u2014on something specific:<\/strong> Don\u2019t merely tell the woman you\u2019re going after that she looks good.<\/p>\n Pick out one thing in particular! Maybe you like the color of her dress. Is she wearing a really cool piece of jewelry that caught your eye when the light hit it the right way? Let her know!<\/p>\n She\u2019ll appreciate your attention to detail. And please keep this in mind: Going straight for, \u201cYou have beautiful eyes,\u201d or, \u201cYou have a beautiful smile,\u201d might be something to avoid.<\/p>\n They\u2019re lines that women hear frequently, meaning that they aren\u2019t original!<\/p>\n If you want to whip one of those out, wait until later in the conversation until you\u2019ve already shown her that you can be a little more creative than that.<\/p>\n (2) Appreciate her brains in addition to her beauty:<\/strong> Women don\u2019t want to feel like a piece of meat.<\/p>\n There\u2019s a lot going on beneath the surface, and they want you to pay attention to that in addition to their killer looks.<\/p>\n One surefire way to get a woman to notice you is to point out a personality trait of hers that you especially like. Maybe you find her to speak very intelligently; maybe you\u2019re impressed by her great sense of humor and how much she makes you laugh.<\/p>\n Who do think she\u2019s going to remember the most clearly: The man who tells her she has sexy legs, or the man who shows appreciation for the great joke she told or how knowledgeable she is about the stock market?<\/p>\n (3) Ignore them:<\/strong> WAIT and read on before you make any assumptions about this one. By \u201cignore,\u201d we do NOT mean that you should blow off a woman or give her the cold shoulder in a rude, dismissive way.<\/p>\n Imagine this scenario: You happen to find a gorgeous woman while out one night that every other man in the room is going after. They\u2019re throwing themselves at her\u2014buying her drinks, asking for her number, etc.<\/p>\n Do you think that she\u2019s going to be able to tell them apart? Nope. They all look the same after a certain point.<\/p>\n Who\u2019s the one guy she\u2019s probably going to notice and remember at the end of the night? The man who sat in the corner, polite and quiet, and maybe shot her a warm and friendly smile in between all of the other men who were fighting obnoxiously for her attention.<\/p>\n When a woman is being bombarded by men, she\u2019ll often appreciate and notice the one who respects her space. If you feel better actually making it a move, just make sure you\u2019re not a repeat of the last 30 guys who hit on her.<\/p>\n Remember, men: If you want to set yourself apart from all the other guys, you can\u2019t do exactly what they\u2019re doing.<\/p>\n Women want men who are going to respect their individuality and uniqueness, so show her how much you\u2019re paying attention! 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