Have you ever been dumped by a girl out of nowhere, with no idea of what you did wrong? Thinking; \u2018But I gave her everything she wanted\u2019?<\/p>\n
Today I\u2019m going to be giving you some honest and real insight into the female mind. The truth is, women can quickly lose interest when they sense that their man has become \u2018whipped\u2019.<\/p>\n
What do I mean by \u2018whipped\u2019? When a guy gives up his POWER in the relationship.<\/p>\n
How to know that you have become \u2018whipped\u2019:<\/strong><\/p>\n \u2022 Your girlfriend has become bossy and demanding. You can\u2019t seem to make her happy. I\u2019m sure that many guys out there have experienced this situation with at least one woman in their life. But how does this happen?<\/p>\n Okay guys, let me explain the common scenario in which a girl loses interest in her man (the real, hard truth):<\/p>\n Aaron and Bridget\u2019s relationship started off being hot, passionate and amazing. Sexual attraction was off the scales, Bridget was blissfully happy and they simply couldn\u2019t get enough of one another.<\/p>\n But as the relationship progressed, Aaron grew comfortable with the way things were and stopped doing the things which most attracted Bridget to him in the first place.<\/p>\n For instance, he stopped surprising her with cute little gifts and messages. He stopped initiating going out for special dates with Bridget, in favor of staying home and watching TV together.<\/p>\n He stopped playing with his sports team as much and would often blow off social occasions he used to enjoy in order to be able to spend more time with Bridget.<\/p>\n And when Bridget asked Aaron what he would like to do together that weekend, she seemed to always get the same reply; \u201cWhatever you want to do babe. I don\u2019t mind\u201d.<\/p>\n Although it doesn\u2019t sound like Aaron was doing anything wrong, Bridget\u2019s attraction towards him was starting to dwindle.<\/p>\n She started doing and saying things that made no sense to Aaron. For instance, complaining about how they were always doing that things that SHE wanted to do.<\/p>\n And Bridget never seemed to be in the mood for sex anymore. Whenever Aaron tried to initiate it, no matter how romantically, she would always come up with some excuse.<\/p>\n At this point, Aaron had begun to lose control in the relationship and he had NO IDEA why. He was thinking \u201cWhat has happened to the sweet, sexy, affectionate girl I first met?\u201d<\/p>\n Aaron tried to make things better with Bridget by doing more to please her. He showed an extra interest in listening to her problems, cleaned her car for her and told her that he was free all weekend and would like to do whatever she wanted.<\/p>\n The trouble was, the more Aaron tried to please Bridget, the more she got annoyed at him and rejected his attempts.<\/p>\n Why? Because having all of the control in the relationship was making Bridget feel less feminine and desirable. The more Aaron lay himself at her feet, the more Bridget felt dominant, masculine and unappealing.<\/p>\n She didn\u2019t WANT to feel bossy and demanding. She never asked to be in this position in the relationship.<\/p>\n Yet Aaron seemed to have let go of his \u2018manliness\u2019 and was continuously encouraging HER to lead the way.<\/p>\n Although Bridget did want to have SOME say in the relationship, she never wanted to feel that she had a puppy dog by her side.<\/p>\n She began to really miss the times when Aaron used to take the lead, and mourn for what the relationship had been.<\/p>\n After this went on for a while, Bridget decided to end the relationship.<\/p>\n And poor Aaron was left in anguish, thinking \u201cWhat did I do wrong? I gave her everything she wanted\u2026”<\/p>\n Do you see now what went wrong there? Why Bridget lost interest in the relationship?<\/p>\n It wasn\u2019t that she didn\u2019t like Aaron as a person, it\u2019s that she didn\u2019t like the way his behavior made her FEEL.<\/p>\n The more Aaron handed the reins over to Bridget, less attractive and feminine she felt. Resulting in Bridget having less interest in sex and the relationship in general.<\/p>\n Although it\u2019s important that both relationship partners have power in a relationship, the bottom line is that all women have a need to feel cared for, protected and pursued by their man.<\/p>\n And if they\u2019re not feeling it, it can put pretty big holes in their attraction tanks.<\/p>\n But don\u2019t worry \u2013 if your girl has started to show any of the warning signs above, it IS possible to pull her back to you.<\/p>\n In order to stay ATTRACTIVE to the woman you are with, here\u2019s what you need to do:<\/p>\n Put on the brakes<\/strong> This doesn\u2019t mean you should stop making an effort in your relationship. In fact, quite the opposite. It means that by making yourself a little unavailable, you are showing her the catch you are.<\/p>\n So that when you DO see your girlfriend, you will have taken back a bit of that control. You can start taking the lead and sweeping her off her feet all over again.<\/p>\n Be a leader<\/strong> Women love men who TAKE THE LEAD.<\/p>\n So instead of leaving the decision up to her, YOU decide what you should do this Saturday.<\/p>\n Take your girl out somewhere YOU have planned.\u00a0 Surprise her – make it fun and exciting. She will love you for it.<\/p>\n Have your own life<\/strong> Keep up your own interests, hobbies and friendships when you are in your relationship. Giving up who you are in order to spend more time with your girl could actually end up driving her away.<\/p>\n When your girlfriend sees you doing the things you are passionate about, you will be all the more appealing to her. So stop trying to be her succumb to her every need and focus on YOU for a change.<\/p>\n Remember, she likes you for who you are.<\/p>\n Let her do things for YOU for a change<\/strong> This is a proven psychological fact – we like those who we do favors for.<\/p>\n Why? Because when you invest your time and energy into someone, this sends a powerful message to your brain saying \u201cIf I am doing something for this person, I must like them\u201d.<\/p>\n Asking your girl for a special request every once and a while will demonstrate to her that you have self-confidence and are someone to be valued. For instance, asking her for a back rub after a hard gym sesh.<\/p>\n You ARE a man of value. So be sure to follow this advice, and you will always have a happy woman by your side.<\/p>\n Brooke Ryan, Have you ever been dumped by a girl out of nowhere, with no idea of what you did wrong? Thinking; \u2018But I gave her everything she wanted\u2019? 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\n\u2022 Your girlfriend is less interested in sex. You keep hearing; \u201cI\u2019m not in the mood\u201d.
\n\u2022 Your girlfriend gets annoyed when you try to please her. She says things like; \u201cWhy is it always MY choice?\u201d<\/p>\n
\nPut a bit of distance between you and your girlfriend – so that she starts missing you and stops simply EXPECTING you to call or text her.<\/p>\n
\nSaying \u201cI don\u2019t know, you choose\u201d and \u201cIt\u2019s up to you\u2019 all the time is NOT going to do you any favors. In fact, it is going to make your relationship WORSE.<\/p>\n
\nAn attractive person has a life \u2013 whether they are in a relationship or single.<\/p>\n
\nThe truth is, catering for your girlfriend\u2019s every need won\u2019t necessarily make her like you more. But when she does things for YOU, she WILL like you more.<\/p>\n
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