Admit it: if a hot woman came up to you at this very moment and asked to you go to bed with her, you\u2019d probably have a harder time saying \u201cno\u201d than \u201cyes\u201d.<\/p>\n
That\u2019s just how men are hardwired \u2013 if they like what they see, it takes little reason for them to get physical with a woman.<\/p>\n
Women however, operate on a different level.\u00a0 Master seducers know that certain needs have to be met BEFORE she even thinks about having sex with a guy.<\/p>\n
Don\u2019t fret though \u2013 it doesn\u2019t involve mind control or groveling for her affection.\u00a0 All it takes is three simple steps to physical intimacy:<\/p>\n
Step #1: Put Pair-Bonding Into Play<\/strong><\/p>\n Here\u2019s a simple truth: if a girl isn\u2019t comfortable with you, she wouldn\u2019t consider getting physical.<\/p>\n Wikipedia states that “In biology, a pair bond is the strong affinity that develops in some species between the males and females in a pair, potentially leading to breeding.”<\/p>\n The same applies to the human species; a woman has to feel a considerable measure of closeness before she can take things to the next level.\u00a0 But how do you do this?<\/p>\n Once you\u2019re past the first date (where you\u2019ve gotten to know her interests, etc.), you can transition to a series of activities where you can rack up enough hours to instill this sense of closeness.<\/p>\n The pick-up artist Mystery (author of the \u201cMystery Method\u201d) even has it down to a specific number.\u00a0 He calls it the Seven-Hour Rule \u2013 according to him, this is the average amount of time needed before an emotional bond can develop.<\/p>\n Mystery recommends taking a girl to several locations (all of which depend on your girl\u2019s specific likes) where you can build enough comfort.\u00a0 In a typical dating routine, he and the girl drops by the store on the way home to pick up some food like barbecue fixings to \u201csubconsciously activate domestic couple fantasies in her brain.\u201d<\/p>\n Remember, shared experiences make for a stronger emotional bond.\u00a0 It doesn\u2019t have to be all in one day; you can split your activities across a week.\u00a0 As long as the hours add up, you\u2019re on the right track.<\/p>\n Step #2: Learn How To Keep Your Cool<\/strong><\/p>\n Part of a woman\u2019s attraction requirement is the ability to keep a cool head under pressure.\u00a0 Back in ancient times when people lived in groups to survive the harsh elements, mastery over emotions was a prized trait \u2013 something that the tribal leaders possessed.<\/p>\n Fast forward to today, women still look for that same basic trait in a man.\u00a0 Although basic survival isn\u2019t a concern in the present, you can still demonstrate your emotional mastery in other ways.<\/p>\n For instance, don\u2019t get all worked up if the waiter got your order wrong.\u00a0 Instead of berating him for the mistake (and looking immature in front of your date), just play it cool and poke fun at the botched order.<\/p>\n Showing a girl that you\u2019re able to roll with the circumstances AND turning them around in your favor will hit all sorts of subconscious switches in her brain (much like in the earlier example of picking out food together).<\/p>\n Furthermore, it gives her a good idea of what kind of partner you\u2019ll be like.\u00a0 A guy who has a handle on his emotions is more likely to communicate with women on their frequency – this is something women appreciate in a relationship.<\/p>\n Women in general are inclined to talk about their daily affairs from an emotional point of view.\u00a0 Meanwhile, men typically prefer to enumerate the events of the day in a more factual or chronological manner.<\/p>\n So having better control over your feelings means a better chance to connect with the ladies.\u00a0 If you need help in this department, there\u2019s plenty of self-help material out there, like \u201cAnger Management For Dummies\u201d.<\/p>\n (You don\u2019t have to be a rage-aholic to read that book, though \u2013 it has plenty of basic information on how to manage your emotions during stressful times, which applies to everyone!)<\/p>\n Step #3:\u00a0 Don\u2019t Take Yourself Too Seriously<\/strong><\/p>\n One of the common mistakes than a lot of men make is that their conversations are totally devoid of any humor.\u00a0 This is actually related to the previos step because sticking to the facts and not injecting any emotions in your anecdotes won\u2019t bring you closer to women.<\/p>\n Instead of just conversing, try a little flirting.\u00a0 Don\u2019t worry, this isn\u2019t about sexual innuendo or making sleazy comments.<\/p>\n Rather, flirting is about being playful with your dialogue and finding humor in a situation.<\/p>\n For instance, if you\u2019re out on a date and the guy waiting your table happens to be grouchy, you can create an inside joke with your girl instead of acting indignant and chewing him out.<\/p>\n Say something like, \u201cLooks like someone kicked Mr. Sunshine in the groin today…he isn\u2019t the cheeriest guy, is he?\u201d<\/p>\n The next time he swings by with your order and leaves, you\u2019ll probably exchange amused glances with your date and have a chuckle.\u00a0 Now you can make plans for another date as a way to \u201cmake it up to her\u201d and eat at another place where Mr. Sunshine ISN\u2019T serving the food!<\/p>\n One particularly useful bit you can try is telling a girl about a difficult experience where you came out ok. \u00a0For instance, it could be about the time you were running late for work and got busted by a stone-faced police officer for going over the speed limit.<\/p>\n There you were, all flustered and sweaty, but you managed to convince Officer Stoneface to give you a break and let you off with a warning.<\/p>\n You know how people look back on a tough times and laugh about them in retrospect?\u00a0 This is the same thing.<\/p>\n By relating a difficult situation and finishing it up with a happy ending, you can generate positive, exciting emotions thanks to your light-hearted storytelling.<\/p>\n Once you\u2019ve gotten these three essentials sorted out, women will have no problem having sexual thoughts of you in the near future.\u00a0 Remember that intimacy is a process, and it just takes the right conditions to kick it in high gear!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Admit it: if a hot woman came up to you at this very moment and asked to you go to bed with her, you\u2019d probably have a harder time saying \u201cno\u201d than \u201cyes\u201d. 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