To a lot of men, they think that being the guy who gets a ton of dates is a great big mystery they can\u2019t hope to crack.<\/p>\n
Well, the truth is that there\u2019s nothing mysterious about getting women to like you. To reach the ideal state where being attractive is effortless, you need to put in amount of effort over a period of time.<\/p>\n
However, this doesn\u2019t mean it\u2019s hard. Once you know which areas to focus on, it\u2019s just a matter of consistently cultivating habits based on the following:<\/p>\n
#1: Be An Awesome Friend<\/strong><\/p>\n What does this have to do with dating women? It\u2019s actually an important part of being attractive because the way you treat other people \u2013 especially your buddies \u2013 is a good indication of who you are as a person.<\/p>\n If you\u2019re the kind of guy who doesn\u2019t respect his friends or suddenly blows them off for a hot date, then you need to change this habit before you create a bad impression.<\/p>\n Women are actually more comfortable with guys who don\u2019t make them the center of their universe and become dead to everyone else when they start dating. They\u2019d rather go out with someone that has solid network of friends that he speaks highly of \u2013 this is positive sign that he has a healthy social life going on.<\/p>\n #2: Be A Geek Geeks are essentially people who have an impressive body of knowledge on a given subject, and this makes them interesting to women.<\/p>\n Here\u2019s a basic truth: when you always have something interesting to say, that in turn makes YOU interesting as well.<\/p>\n And it\u2019s easy \u2013 just figure out what you\u2019re ALREADY into and learn more about it. The internet is your friend, so find every available resource out there to help enrich your knowledge on the stuff you\u2019re into.<\/p>\n Trust me \u2013 being a sort of \u201cauthority\u201d on obscure topics is attractive, provided you\u2019re genuinely into them. It could by anything from brewing your own beer (and knowing the difference between the different types) to the implied social themes in your favorite graphic novels, or being able to tell if someone\u2019s lying.<\/p>\n The magic of this is that knowing these things comes natural to you, so you\u2019re not \u201cputting on a personality\u201d just to impress women. And the side effect of this is that you\u2019ll naturally attract like-minded women who share the same interests as you.<\/p>\n #3: Don\u2019t Be A Zombie<\/strong><\/p>\n You know what\u2019s a drag? It\u2019s when you\u2019re having fun and have this crazy amount of energy going around when someone comes up to you and brings you down with their bad vibe.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t be a buzzkill around women \u2013 you need to demonstrate a high amount of enthusiasm because a positive attitude is contagious. When you give off a certain vibe, other people will tend to mirror that.<\/p>\n So get off your butt and get out there. Take vitamin supplements, do cardio a few times a week and don\u2019t embrace a sedentary lifestyle.<\/p>\n It\u2019s not about being one of those overzealous fitness nuts or acting like you\u2019re on a caffeine rush all the time. You just have to get into the habit of being out there and staying active. #4: Be Masculine In Small Doses<\/strong><\/p>\n What does being masculine mean anyway? Is it working out and bulking up to Schwarzenegger-like proportions?<\/p>\n Is it acting like your favorite action heroes like John McClane from Die Hard or Tony Stark from Iron Man? Is it about crushing beer cans on your forehead and pounding your chest for all to see? The good news is that you don\u2019t have to be in the military or a politician to demonstrate these qualities. You can give her subtle hints of your alpha male personality in your own way in everyday situations, such as taking the initiative to make plans and having a definite agenda when going out.<\/p>\n When you\u2019re having a difference of opinion with your girl, you don\u2019t just sheepishly agree in order to appease her. Rather, you stand by your beliefs and reconsider your views only if your truly believe that she makes a valid point. Otherwise, you have the spine to agree to disagree because that\u2019s the kind of attitude that earns her respect.<\/p>\n Above all, you should be the guy who looks after her well-being by taking the lead when needed. Women love the feeling that their guy is protecting them from the big, bad world \u2013 even if they\u2019re perfectly capable to taking care of themselves.<\/p>\n In the end, being attractive doesn\u2019t involve transforming yourself into some other person just to impress women. 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\nI\u2019m not asking you to dress like one of the guys from the TV show \u201cBig Bang Theory\u201d, but rather emulate the qualities that make them attractive.<\/p>\n
\nIt not only makes you more attractive to women, but a more likeable, well-balanced guy who gets along with a wide range of folks.<\/p>\n
\nBeing all these might seem cool on the surface, but what lies at the core of masculinity are qualities like leadership, a solid sense of direction and decisiveness.<\/p>\n