{"id":224,"date":"2013-05-28T05:04:32","date_gmt":"2013-05-28T05:04:32","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/men\/blog\/?p=224"},"modified":"2018-07-18T07:58:44","modified_gmt":"2018-07-18T07:58:44","slug":"the-key-difference-between-nice-guys-and-successful-guys","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/men\/blog\/the-key-difference-between-nice-guys-and-successful-guys\/","title":{"rendered":"The Key Difference Between Nice Guys and Successful Guys"},"content":{"rendered":"

“No Actors, No Script, No Rehearsal, Just Life” – Source Unknown<\/strong>
\n<\/em>
\nIt\u2019s a common complaint, an annoying situation, even a man\u2019s worst nightmare.<\/p>\n

You know what I\u2019m talking about: When a girl you like wants to be “just friends.”<\/p>\n

But seriously… you don’t try to attract a woman or approach a girl so you can just be her “friend’!<\/p>\n

At best, it’s settling for second best. At worst, it’s emasculating your male power and giving up any hope of getting in her panties…<\/p>\n

You like this girl, you want intimacy, but all she wants is friendship. How do you turn things around?<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

In short, you have to make a girl REMEMBER you. Whereas guys who are much more than friends are always on a woman\u2019s mind, friends are just\u2026 there. There\u2019s no special emotion connected to them. They\u2019re just\u2026 friends.<\/p>\n

So how do you change this?<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Let\u2019s start with the basics: What do women want in a romance? Well, by now you know that women are looking for STAND-UP GUYS, guys who mean business and don\u2019t take no for an answer. They want a protector, a defender, a man who will always be at their side.<\/p>\n

Now ask yourself: Is that me?<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

If you\u2019re the kind of guy who avoids conflict, treats women with deference and worship, jumps at the opportunity to listen to her moan\u2026<\/p>\n

Then you\u2019re a nice guy. You don\u2019t stand up for yourself. You don\u2019t assume leadership. You sit down when a woman wants you to jump up and save her butt!<\/p>\n

So it seems, nice guys always finish last. They end up in the friend zone, instead of the BED zone.<\/p>\n

But does it have to be that way?<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

NO! You just have to make one change that will forever transform your game. I\u2019m not talking about becoming a bad boy; you can be a stand-up guy without being a jerk. Stand-up guys are just good guys who give women the same things they love about bad boys\u2013without beating girls up and treating them like trash.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m talking about bringing to the table the one thing girls love. The one thing bad boys\u2013and stand-up guys\u2013have that nice guys just don\u2019t. The difference between nice guys and STAND-UP guys can pretty much be summarized in one word: attitude.<\/p>\n

The stand-up guys, the guys who are MORE than just friends, bring ALPHA ATTITUDE to the table. They bring confidence, swagger, independence, and centered-ness around them.<\/p>\n

Whereas nice guys revolve their worlds around pleasing and being nice to women, stand-up guys revolve their world around themselves. They\u2019re on a path, a mission, and if a woman doesn\u2019t want to join them, it\u2019s her loss. But if she does want to join him, she better recognize that his world, is her world. Not the other way around.<\/p>\n

If a girl is “just friends” with you, she probably doesn\u2019t take you seriously enough. Or, you haven\u2019t shown her you\u2019re serious enough about HER for her to make a move herself.<\/p>\n

So how do you change things so that your female friend\/acquaintance\/secret crush will be attracted to you? <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

I really like is advice from Carlos Xuma\u2019s “Secrets to Becoming the Alpha Male”:<\/p>\n

“Women want STRONG Alpha Men. Guys who can lead them and protect them.<\/em><\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

Don\u2019t make the mistake of believing that women want jerks. They
\nonly desire certain Alpha qualities the jerk possesses and that the
\nNice Guy is afraid to show.<\/em><\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

These Alpha qualities act like a potent drug on her nervous system,
\nblinding her (temporarily) to the reality of the Jerk\u2019s bad
\ninfluence. Eventually she finds herself emotionally locked to
\nsomeone she doesn\u2019t like, but can\u2019t seem to get away from.”<\/em><\/p>\n

In other words, you show a girl attitude. You penetrate her emotions. You become a drug to her, someone so daring, so masculine, so irresistible, that thoughts of you are stuck in her head day and night. They want to see you so badly, that nothing else crosses their minds.<\/p>\n

Contrast these emotions to the ones she feels about nice guys, the “just friends.” Does she even remember who they are?<\/p>\n

When it comes to getting the girls you want, it often all comes down to the first meeting and first impression. It\u2019s true, two of the most common mistakes men make are either showing too much sexual intention too soon, or not showing any at all. Mistake number two will leave you in the Friend Zone.<\/p>\n

So how do you strike that balance?<\/p>\n

ANSWER: Check out ‘Friends Into Lovers<\/a>‘<\/strong> by my friend Eric Edgemont.<\/p>\n

If you’re a guy who’s always being sidelined by girls even before you get the chance to impress her, and you want to break free from the “friend” zone and make her yours, don’t just get angry or settle for being her friend.
\n>> Click here and discover how to be her lover right now. <\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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