By definition, romance is the act of \u201cmaking amorous advances towards someone.\u201d\u00a0 The end objective then, is to elicit feelings of excitement and infatuation from your actions.<\/p>\n
The problem with most guys is dealing with the specifics of getting this done.\u00a0 Here are three effective ways to get a woman thinking of you as more than \u201cjust a friend\u201d:<\/p>\n
#1: Act With Abundance, Not Desperation<\/strong><\/p>\n Surprisingly, some men have a sense of entitlement when they try to attract women.\u00a0 They think that just because they\u2019re putting in the effort, women should automatically fall in love with them.<\/p>\n Dating is not a matter of \u201cNow that I paid for dinner, what\u2019s in it for me?\u201d\u00a0 That\u2019s neediness talking.<\/p>\n Desperation is not a good vibe to give out, and women can smell this a mile away.\u00a0 Being focused on the outcome \u2013 and worse, basing your self-worth on it \u2013 is not the kind of attitude you should bring into a date.<\/p>\n Live for the moment and enjoy being with a girl, no matter how it may turn out in the end.\u00a0 You can\u2019t have a thousand thoughts running in the back of your mind AND focus your attention on her at the same time.<\/p>\n #2: Realize That Intimacy Takes Time<\/strong><\/p>\n Seduction is a gradual process.\u00a0 If you haven\u2019t properly calibrated a woman\u2019s interest level, she won\u2019t be comfortable enough to get more physical with you.<\/p>\n You have to understand that romance goes through stages.\u00a0 If a girl feels rushed going through them too quickly (like a candlelit dinner on the first date), she\u2019ll be uncomfortable with the urgency.<\/p>\n