{"id":1173,"date":"2019-10-08T23:55:09","date_gmt":"2019-10-08T23:55:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/men\/blog\/?p=1173"},"modified":"2022-07-13T23:46:07","modified_gmt":"2022-07-13T23:46:07","slug":"how-to-be-the-best-flirt","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/men\/blog\/how-to-be-the-best-flirt\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Be the Best Flirt"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Hey there!<\/p>\n<p>How are your flirting skills?<\/p>\n<p>Is flirting something you love to do, something you\u2019re good at?<\/p>\n<p>Or&#8230;does the thought of flirting make you sweat?<\/p>\n<p>Flirting is fun&#8230;or it CAN be fun&#8230;once you learn how.<\/p>\n<p>So today I want to share 10 flirty tips to make you the best flirter around.<\/p>\n<p>I know flirting doesn&#8217;t come easily to everyone.<\/p>\n<p>The best flirters make it look EASY, and you probably think they were born that way.<\/p>\n<p>But the truth is, everyone who\u2019s good at flirting made a DECISION to learn.<\/p>\n<p>They stepped out of their comfort zone and practiced, and so can you.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s way easier than you think of you follow these steps.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3><strong>Flirty Tip #1: Practice by Greeting Strangers Every Day<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>Whoa! That\u2019s a big challenge to most of us because that really takes us out of our comfort zone.<\/p>\n<p>But it shouldn\u2019t be that hard to say make eye contact, say hello, and smile.<\/p>\n<p>Try different things, too. Say hi and nod your head. Try good morning, good afternoon, and \u201chow\u2019s it going?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Some people will greet you back, others might smile and talk, while a few will ignore you.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t take that personally\u2014you don\u2019t know how their day is going.<\/p>\n<p>But do know, greeting others brightens their day and has huge benefits for you as well.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ll get comfortable talking to people and making eye contact, and flirting will become much easier.<\/p>\n<p>In fact, you might find opportunities to flirt just by greeting people you pass.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3><strong>Flirty Tip #2: Compliment Others<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>Throw out compliments like they\u2019re confetti!<\/p>\n<p>Well, don\u2019t be insincere, but whenever you have a chance to say something nice, DO IT!<\/p>\n<p>You can even use a compliment to talk to a stranger\u2014and complimenting another man might make his day.<\/p>\n<p>Complimenting others is an easy way to flirt so practice this whenever you can.<\/p>\n<p>When you greet and compliment others, you get used to that happy response and then you can flirt without getting flustered.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s great practice and makes both you and others happy.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3><strong>Flirty Tip #3: Approach People<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>When you get used to greeting others, try approaching more people. Introduce yourself to people and strike up conversations with people on the street.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ll develop charisma and charm, and the ability to talk to people more easily.<\/p>\n<p>This sounds like a big deal now, but it\u2019s just one step further. And it\u2019ll make you a WAY better flirter!<\/p>\n<p>Try some light and innocent flirting with people. Maybe there\u2019s an elderly gentleman sitting outside and you can make his day with some fun chatting.<\/p>\n<p>Some of my most fun and interesting conversations have started with strangers in a restaurant or park.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3><strong>Flirty Tip #4: <\/strong>Remember to keep it light and positive<\/h3>\n<p>Both men and women can mistakenly think that flirting is the same as talking, and they\u2019ll to complaining as a way to start a conversation.<\/p>\n<p>Flirting is about having fun and making the other person feel good.<\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019re having a bad day and can\u2019t think of fun ways to flirt, stick to questions.<\/p>\n<p>Think of flirting as a FUN GAME, and you\u2019ll stay on track.<\/p>\n<p>Now that you\u2019ve been practicing your flirting skills, you\u2019re ready to flirt with the cute lady in the office or your crush.<strong>&nbsp;<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3><strong>Flirty Tip #5: Let him catch you giving him a lingering look.<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>When your crush catches you staring, don\u2019t immediately look away.<\/p>\n<p>Let it linger for a few seconds and then calmly, slowly, look away.<\/p>\n<p>She\u2019ll be so intrigued!<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s just step one. But you don\u2019t have to give her a dozen lingering looks.<\/p>\n<p>Instead, try a lingering look, and later move onto a smile. If she\u2019s sending signals back to you, such as a slow, sexy grin, you might even wink.<\/p>\n<p>This kind of sexy confidence drives men WILD!<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3><strong>Flirty Tip #6: Look at his mouth<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>To be super flirty, let her catch you looking at her mouth while she\u2019s talking.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019ll let him know you like her!<\/p>\n<p>This is a powerful way to flirt, so don\u2019t stare at her mouth the entire time. Just a few looks will do.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3><strong>Flirty Tip #7: Add in touch<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>If you want to see just what a touch can do, walk by a coworker, smile, and touch their shoulder while you say, \u201cGood morning, Mary!\u201d<\/p>\n<p>You can also sneak in a light touch while talking to her to make the conversation more flirty.<\/p>\n<p>See, I told you flirting wasn\u2019t so hard! It starts with reaching out, talking, complimenting others, and adding in a light touch.<\/p>\n<p>After a few lingering looks and sly smiles from you, she won\u2019t know what hit her.<\/p>\n<p>So now you know how to be flirty without saying much&#8230;but what about talking?<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3><strong>Flirty Tip #8: Don\u2019t use the Typical Questions<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>Flirting is often a surprise. And by that, I mean that you catch a woman off guard with something you say.<\/p>\n<p>She notices that you\u2019re more fun, interesting, and engaging&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>&#8230;and she might not know why.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s because you moved away from all the day-to-day typical questions and asked her something that made her think.<\/p>\n<p>Now, I don\u2019t mean you jumped into super serious, late night, pillow talk type questions.<\/p>\n<p>Rather, go for fun and ADVENTUROUS questions. Being quirky and off-beat shows that you put some thought into it.<\/p>\n<p>If you get nervous thinking about it, remember your practice from approaching strangers.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3><strong>Flirty Tip #9: Go for Fun, Sexy Banter<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>If you\u2019re quick-witted or like improv, you might be good at banter.<\/p>\n<p>But if you\u2019re totally mortified at the idea, you can still learn!<\/p>\n<p>Banter is simply a back and forth conversation that\u2019s fun, flirty, and unexpected.<\/p>\n<p>You might recall the show I love Lucy, where she was always having fun little play-fights with her husband.<\/p>\n<p>Banter can be SASSY, PLAYFUL, AND TEASING.<\/p>\n<p>How do you get good at banter and quick answers?<\/p>\n<p>Improv works on forward motion, which is why I mentioned it. You always say \u201cyes\u201d to the last statement and build on it, so your improv conversation can go on a wild adventure.<\/p>\n<p>When flirting, it\u2019s about fun, so keep it going with the first thing that pops into your mind.<\/p>\n<p>Say your crush says, \u201cAre you really going to eat that?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>And you come back with, \u201cIs that a dare?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Banter takes practice, so go ahead and banter with strangers, your friends, and the cute girl at the bus stop.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ll develop the skill to think of the most fun or quirky answer.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>So there you have it: 9 steps to be the BEST flirt around!<\/p>\n<p>Take your time and practice each step, and try to have fun with it. That\u2019s the secret to being a good flirt: you\u2019re having fun and making her day more exciting too.<\/p>\n<p>I hope you\u2019ll enjoy each step and see amazing results!<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>By the way, if you want to tip a woman over to the point of no return with you, check out the video below&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/go\/badboyb\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-1090\" src=\"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/men\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/Bad-Boy-Formula-3.jpg\" alt=\"Bad boy Formula\" width=\"933\" height=\"420\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/men\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/Bad-Boy-Formula-3.jpg 933w, https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/men\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/Bad-Boy-Formula-3-300x135.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/men\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/Bad-Boy-Formula-3-768x346.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/men\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/Bad-Boy-Formula-3-640x288.jpg 640w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 933px) 100vw, 933px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Hey there! 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