But…<\/p>\n
And this is a big but…<\/p>\n
Don\u2019t just come out and say, \u201cHey, we\u2019re great friends…so want to take it a step further?\u201d<\/p>\n
Instead, you can hint and use a subtle technique that will let herhr know about your feelings…<\/p>\n
…while also giving you both an out if the feelings aren\u2019t returned.<\/p>\n
Try something like, \u201cI used to have the biggest crush on you!\u201d<\/p>\n
This is a good way to open the door for more between you.<\/p>\n
You see, she doesn\u2019t have to give an answer right then.<\/p>\n
And if she doesn\u2019t want more from you, then you can both walk away from that comment.<\/p>\n
This statement can tease her too. If you USED to like her, does that mean you still do?<\/p>\n
Does it mean she\u2019d have to work to get you to again?<\/p>\n
Her reaction will tell you A LOT.<\/p>\n
A few positive reactions would be:<\/p>\n
She smiles and gives you lingering look…<\/p>\n
She looks surprised and then smiles to herself…<\/p>\n
She says, \u201cOh really? Me too.\u201d<\/p>\n
OR… she asks you… \u201cSo what about right now?\u201d<\/p>\n
This isn\u2019t the only way to check where she\u2019s at. You might also:<\/p>\n
Do a double take at her and say, \u201cWow, have you been working out…or have I just never noticed how buff you are?\u201d<\/p>\n
Tell her, \u201cAll of my friends don\u2019t get how I can be ONLY friends with someone so gorgeous.\u201d\u00a0\u00a0 (Or nice, sweet, awesome…)<\/p>\n
Or, \u201cI\u2019ve always thought you\u2019re attractive…\u201d<\/p>\n
If she doesn\u2019t say anything to your hint, that doesn\u2019t mean she\u2019s closing the possibility of more.<\/p>\n
Because you\u2019re friends, it might surprise her that you\u2019re opening that door, so she may need time.<\/p>\n
So, your little bombshell hint might have immediate results if she jumps on the chance…<\/p>\n
Or, you might need to take the next two steps.<\/p>\n
Step Two – It\u2019s time to let her think about it…or, more specifically, make her think about it.<\/strong><\/h3>\nI\u2019m not saying pull back and cut her off from the friendship.<\/p>\n
Many women try this… they announce their feelings, and then step back.<\/p>\n
That leaves her really confused.<\/p>\n
\u201cHey…wait a minute..she said she likes me but now she\u2019s just out of the picture? Is she just playing games with me?\u201d<\/em><\/p>\nSo don\u2019t go MIA or try to avoid her completely.<\/p>\n
Just don\u2019t bring it up or try to talk to her about it\u2014give her A LITTLE space while sending a few flirty messages.<\/p>\n
If, it turns out she wants friendship and only friendship, giving her some space reduces the awkwardness factor.<\/p>\n
It lets her figure out how she feels.<\/p>\n
Also, before step three, it\u2019s time to evaluate how she’s responding.<\/p>\n
So you could call this Step 2.5 \u2013 Is her returning your feelings?<\/p>\n
At first, she might have been very surprised.<\/p>\n
Wait, a minute…she likes me? <\/em><\/p>\nOr…She likes me too?<\/em><\/p>\nIt\u2019s possible that she was attracted to you before and didn\u2019t think about a relationship or his feelings.<\/p>\n
Or maybe she was attracted and daydreaming about something happening with you.<\/p>\n
But no matter where she was before, she probably didn\u2019t think you were on the same page…or she would have taken action.<\/p>\n
Now, her\u2019s faced with the possibility of something between the two of you.<\/p>\n
It\u2019s a whole new ballgame!<\/p>\n
That\u2019s why you DON\u2019T want to rush this.<\/p>\n
If she was surprised, she probably didn\u2019t respond right away. her might have dropped his gaze from your lingering look.<\/p>\n
So wait a few weeks to see if she’s sending the signals back to you.<\/p>\n
Does she flirt? Does her give YOU a lingering look? Does she touch you more?<\/p>\n
Does she try to see you more? Like, showing up where you\u2019re at or asking to hang out?<\/p>\n
Even if you don\u2019t see the obvious signs of flirting, she might still be attracted to you.<\/p>\n
Because remember that you didn\u2019t pour it on yet. You hinted that you wanted more from her.<\/p>\n
So decide if she’s showing some positive signs…or if she backed off or sent you a cold shoulder feeling.<\/p>\n
The BIG tell is if you see THE SIGN…<\/p>\n
You know, the sneaky sideways glance….<\/p>\n
That\u2019s when a woman gives you a sideways glance, thinking you won\u2019t notice.<\/p>\n
But you DO. You see her sneaking all kinds of looks your way.<\/p>\n
Or, the elevator glance…<\/p>\n
You turn partway away but catch his gaze sliding down your body.<\/p>\n
If her\u2019s checking you out, his mind has jumped straight to: Whoa, she likes me…and I can\u2019t stop looking…There could be something here.<\/em><\/p>\nIf she’s more of the emotional type, she might stare into your eyes and get twitter-patted.<\/p>\n
When you feel like there\u2019s some indication on his part\u2014and remember her might play it cool to preserve the friendship\u2014then go ahead with step three.<\/p>\n
Step three \u2013 Pour it on!<\/strong><\/h3>\nYou think there\u2019s something there, so now you get to test it.<\/p>\n
It\u2019s time to flirt and let her know it\u2019s a green light…<\/p>\n
BUT…you are giving her the green light to chase you.<\/p>\n
You don\u2019t want to chase her and take the fun out of it.<\/p>\n
You\u2019re going to intrigue her, tantalize her, and make her come hither.<\/p>\n
Wear something sexy but still mysterious, meaning let his imagination do the work.<\/p>\n
It\u2019s okay if you attract a few other women your way too\u2014it\u2019s good to let your friend turned crush know that you\u2019re a hot and single man.<\/p>\n
Let your body language pull her in.<\/p>\n
Face her when you talk, lean in, and let your flirty girl side out.<\/p>\n
Be your hot, sexy, masculine self and let her take the bait.<\/p>\n
In other words, don\u2019t throw yourself at her.<\/p>\n
There are a few times when it works to tell a guy, \u201cHey, I really like you and want to see where this goes.\u201d<\/p>\n
If you\u2019re good friends, it might work to talk about all this.<\/p>\n
But it\u2019s always a good idea to try the subtle approach first and let her feel like she gets to chase you.<\/p>\n
That create excitement for both of you.<\/p>\n
So, how long should you give her?<\/p>\n
If you\u2019re pulling out the big sexy guns and he\u2019s not biting after a week, pull back.<\/p>\n
That alone might get his attention. her might peruse you then.<\/p>\n
It can be very fun and rewarding to turn a friend into a lover.<\/p>\n
He already knows you and likes you.<\/p>\n
Try these three steps to turn your friend into a lover and maybe even more.<\/p>\n
In general, you’ll want to make her feel SPECIAL in a way that’s appropriate to the current state of things between you two. It does take a bit of an eye to spot these subtle differences, but in time you’ll develop a sixth sense about these things.<\/p>\n
If you want to accelerate the learning process however, here’s the quickest way to MASTERING the fundamentals of sure-fire seduction and really get the fireworks firing:<\/p>\n
Video: The 5 Most Important Secrets To Making Her Crave You<\/strong><\/a><\/h2>\n
So don\u2019t go MIA or try to avoid her completely.<\/p>\n
Just don\u2019t bring it up or try to talk to her about it\u2014give her A LITTLE space while sending a few flirty messages.<\/p>\n
If, it turns out she wants friendship and only friendship, giving her some space reduces the awkwardness factor.<\/p>\n
It lets her figure out how she feels.<\/p>\n
Also, before step three, it\u2019s time to evaluate how she’s responding.<\/p>\n
So you could call this Step 2.5 \u2013 Is her returning your feelings?<\/p>\n
At first, she might have been very surprised.<\/p>\n
Wait, a minute…she likes me? <\/em><\/p>\n Or…She likes me too?<\/em><\/p>\n It\u2019s possible that she was attracted to you before and didn\u2019t think about a relationship or his feelings.<\/p>\n Or maybe she was attracted and daydreaming about something happening with you.<\/p>\n But no matter where she was before, she probably didn\u2019t think you were on the same page…or she would have taken action.<\/p>\n Now, her\u2019s faced with the possibility of something between the two of you.<\/p>\n It\u2019s a whole new ballgame!<\/p>\n That\u2019s why you DON\u2019T want to rush this.<\/p>\n If she was surprised, she probably didn\u2019t respond right away. her might have dropped his gaze from your lingering look.<\/p>\n So wait a few weeks to see if she’s sending the signals back to you.<\/p>\n Does she flirt? Does her give YOU a lingering look? Does she touch you more?<\/p>\n Does she try to see you more? Like, showing up where you\u2019re at or asking to hang out?<\/p>\n Even if you don\u2019t see the obvious signs of flirting, she might still be attracted to you.<\/p>\n Because remember that you didn\u2019t pour it on yet. You hinted that you wanted more from her.<\/p>\n So decide if she’s showing some positive signs…or if she backed off or sent you a cold shoulder feeling.<\/p>\n The BIG tell is if you see THE SIGN…<\/p>\n You know, the sneaky sideways glance….<\/p>\n That\u2019s when a woman gives you a sideways glance, thinking you won\u2019t notice.<\/p>\n But you DO. You see her sneaking all kinds of looks your way.<\/p>\n Or, the elevator glance…<\/p>\n You turn partway away but catch his gaze sliding down your body.<\/p>\n If her\u2019s checking you out, his mind has jumped straight to: Whoa, she likes me…and I can\u2019t stop looking…There could be something here.<\/em><\/p>\n If she’s more of the emotional type, she might stare into your eyes and get twitter-patted.<\/p>\n When you feel like there\u2019s some indication on his part\u2014and remember her might play it cool to preserve the friendship\u2014then go ahead with step three.<\/p>\n You think there\u2019s something there, so now you get to test it.<\/p>\n It\u2019s time to flirt and let her know it\u2019s a green light…<\/p>\n BUT…you are giving her the green light to chase you.<\/p>\n You don\u2019t want to chase her and take the fun out of it.<\/p>\n You\u2019re going to intrigue her, tantalize her, and make her come hither.<\/p>\n Wear something sexy but still mysterious, meaning let his imagination do the work.<\/p>\n It\u2019s okay if you attract a few other women your way too\u2014it\u2019s good to let your friend turned crush know that you\u2019re a hot and single man.<\/p>\n Let your body language pull her in.<\/p>\n Face her when you talk, lean in, and let your flirty girl side out.<\/p>\n Be your hot, sexy, masculine self and let her take the bait.<\/p>\n In other words, don\u2019t throw yourself at her.<\/p>\n There are a few times when it works to tell a guy, \u201cHey, I really like you and want to see where this goes.\u201d<\/p>\n If you\u2019re good friends, it might work to talk about all this.<\/p>\n But it\u2019s always a good idea to try the subtle approach first and let her feel like she gets to chase you.<\/p>\n That create excitement for both of you.<\/p>\n So, how long should you give her?<\/p>\n If you\u2019re pulling out the big sexy guns and he\u2019s not biting after a week, pull back.<\/p>\n That alone might get his attention. her might peruse you then.<\/p>\n It can be very fun and rewarding to turn a friend into a lover.<\/p>\n He already knows you and likes you.<\/p>\n Try these three steps to turn your friend into a lover and maybe even more.<\/p>\n In general, you’ll want to make her feel SPECIAL in a way that’s appropriate to the current state of things between you two. It does take a bit of an eye to spot these subtle differences, but in time you’ll develop a sixth sense about these things.<\/p>\n If you want to accelerate the learning process however, here’s the quickest way to MASTERING the fundamentals of sure-fire seduction and really get the fireworks firing:<\/p>\nStep three \u2013 Pour it on!<\/strong><\/h3>\n
Video: The 5 Most Important Secrets To Making Her Crave You<\/strong><\/a><\/h2>\n
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