{"id":1061,"date":"2018-07-31T22:44:34","date_gmt":"2018-07-31T22:44:34","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/men\/blog\/?p=1061"},"modified":"2018-07-31T22:46:30","modified_gmt":"2018-07-31T22:46:30","slug":"why-experts-say-no-contact-is-bad-theyre-lying-to-you","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/men\/blog\/why-experts-say-no-contact-is-bad-theyre-lying-to-you\/","title":{"rendered":"Why &#8220;Experts&#8221; Say No Contact Is Bad (They&#8217;re LYING To You!)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em>By Brad Browning<\/em><br \/>\n<em>From <a href=\"http:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/brad\">The Ex Factor Guide<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n<h3><strong>If you can&#8217;t tell for sure if you&#8217;re over analyzing your ex&#8217;s behavior, then check this out&#8230;<\/strong><br \/>\n<strong><em><a href=\"http:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/brad\">The Ex Factor Guide<\/a><\/em><\/strong><\/h3>\n<h2>Why &#8220;Experts&#8221; Say No Contact Is Bad (They&#8217;re LYING To You!)<\/h2>\n<p>Today, we&#8217;re going to address some of the other so-called \u201cgurus\u201d criticize &#8211; my \u201cno contact\u201d strategy.<\/p>\n<p>I never felt like I had to defend this strategy\u2013 after all. However, there are a few <em>gurus<\/em> here with low-quality webcam videos that spout a number of nonsense arguments against my strategy.<\/p>\n<p>Normally, I wouldn\u2019t bother to address these videos but I occasionally get a few of my viewers who mention how my version of \u201cno contact\u201d is wrong because they\u2019ve watched some other <strong>misleading<\/strong> video.<\/p>\n<p>This obviously makes me upset, not because these videos are seemingly attacking me but because the advice that they\u2019re giving is downright incorrect.<\/p>\n<p>And the only reason these gurus want to discredit my strategy is to stir up some controversy to get views on their channel.<\/p>\n<p>But as you\u2019ll soon realize, the amount of hate comments and dislikes these videos get serve as some level of proof that these imposters are simply trying to get their 15-minutes of fame.<\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/player.vimeo.com\/video\/258154056\" width=\"640\" height=\"360\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ll also run into videos that propose that their version of No Contact is somehow better than mine by calling it something fancy like \u201cThe Super No Contact Strategy\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>Again, don\u2019t fall for it.<\/p>\n<p>These fancy names only serve as a gimmick in their quest to get views and build controversy.<\/p>\n<p>So today, I\u2019m going to categorically shut down all of these arguments once and for all.<\/p>\n<h3><strong>The first argument that I hear is \u201cyou can\u2019t ignore your ex into wanting to be with you again.<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>\u201cMy simple rebuttal to this fallacious statement is, \u201c yes, you can.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>In many cases, simply engaging in No Contact is good enough to force your ex to feel enough attraction to you to want to get back together with you.<\/p>\n<p>Absence is an extremely powerful force and using this psychological strategy can yield some pretty positive results.<\/p>\n<p>Even if your ex doesn\u2019t come back to you after a lengthy No Contact period, you\u2019ll allow your ex\u2019s emotions to settle in the wake up a breakup.<\/p>\n<p>See, depending on how your relationship ended, your ex could be feeling a myriad of emotions \u2013 anger, sadness, hurt or depression.<\/p>\n<p>These sorts of negative emotions must be given time to settle in order for your ex to begin feeling positive emotions for you again.<\/p>\n<p>And depending on the reason why you broke up, these emotions can take weeks to subside.<\/p>\n<p>However, there are a very few situations in which I do not recommend No Contact, but for the vast majority of people out there that want their ex back, No Contact is not only crucial, but it is absolutely necessary.<\/p>\n<h3><strong>The second piece of nonsense that gets thrown around is that I somehow believe No Contact will solve all your problems.<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>Not once have I said that No Contact is the magic bullet that will make your ex come crawling back to you.<\/p>\n<p>People who who have seen my work will know that while No Contact is indeed an integral part of my system, it isn\u2019t always a 1-step solution.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ll soon realize that most of the time, getting your ex back is generally a 3-step process and No Contact is only a part of the first step.<\/p>\n<p>In my 10 years of breakup and relationship experience, I\u2019ve discovered that these three steps work for the vast majority of all my clients and if you\u2019ve read about my 3 step system on exactly how to get your ex back, you\u2019ll realize that I outline every single possible scenario that you could possibly face.<\/p>\n<p>So if you think your particular situation is somehow unique and you\u2019re not sure if No Contact is even applicable to you, I\u2019ve got you covered.<\/p>\n<h3><strong>The third argument that these so-called experts like to spout is that the recovery process that you undergo during No Contact is ineffective or useless.<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>In my version of No Contact, I tell my clients that they need to undergo several key personal development routines that are crucial if you want to get your ex back and keep him or her.<\/p>\n<p>Getting your ex back is absolutely useless if your ex will suddenly break up with you again a few weeks after getting back together.<\/p>\n<p>While the tips that I outline during my No Contact may sound like they\u2019re insignificant, I can assure you that they\u2019ll not only help you feel more confident, but you\u2019ll be better equipped to building a stronger, more vibrant relationship with your ex once you get him or her back.<\/p>\n<p>Now, I can keep going on and on about the other silly arguments these self-proclaimed experts claim but that would be giving them too much credit.<\/p>\n<p>Honestly, I\u2019d rather not have to make this, but I was sick and tired of seeing some people get misleading information.<\/p>\n<p>So if you want the TRUTH about how to get your ex back.<\/p>\n<p>If you want advice that\u2019s been proven over years and years of research, and if you&#8217;re interested in learning some more covert psychological strategies that are going to help get your ex back into your arms then check this out&#8230;<\/p>\n<h2><a href=\"http:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/brad\"><strong>Video: Secrets To Getting Your Ex Back<\/strong><\/a><\/h2>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/brad\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-1042\" src=\"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/men\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/MM-Ex-Factor.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"933\" height=\"420\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/men\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/MM-Ex-Factor.jpg 933w, https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/men\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/MM-Ex-Factor-300x135.jpg 300w, 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