Let me tell you straight up that putting a negative vibe isn\u2019t how to talk to women.\u00a0 I know the prospect of approaching a complete stranger can be intimidating, but if you let this anxiety get to your head, then you\u2019re screwed from the beginning.<\/p>\n
Case in point:<\/p>\n
You:\u00a0 Hi, that\u2019s a really interesting necklace.<\/p>\n
Her:\u00a0\u00a0 Um, yeah, a friend gave it to me.<\/p>\n
You: Cool, where was it made though?<\/p>\n
Her: (Lethargically) \u2026I dunno, somewhere from Asia probably.<\/p>\n
You: Nice, so\u2026you come here often?<\/p>\n
Ok, STOP.<\/p>\n
Did you notice the lack of positive energy in the conversation?\u00a0 I know you\u2019re trying to sound like a cool guy by asking her all these questions, but all you\u2019ll get are one-liners at the rate you\u2019re going.<\/p>\n
Without anything truly compelling to talk about, the rapport will take a nosedive. In the end, she\u2019ll just be biding her time until she has an excuse to go to the little girls\u2019 room or look for her gal pals.<\/p>\n
Maybe there will be circumstances when she\u2019s just not in the mood for small talk. \u00a0For all you know, her pet plant just died, or had a bad day at work today.<\/p>\n
But even then, guys who know how to talk to women have the ability to snap them out of their little bubble and capture their interest.\u00a0 Of course, it varies from case to case, but with enough practice you can kick off a nice conversation most of the time.<\/p>\n
Although I don\u2019t really recommend having canned material prepared in advance, it is a good idea to at least know how to transition from one topic to another.<\/p>\n
Even if it is a good move to ask a woman about something she has on her (a book, her earrings, an odd-looking accessory), this won\u2019t always work.\u00a0 There will be cases where the girl may not have anything to really justify such a question, so getting her take on a topic is a great alternative.<\/p>\n
For example, if you happen to have a friend with you, leave your table and go on to your target.\u00a0 You might start things off by telling her, \u201cHey, I just wanted to ask your opinion for a quick sec – my friend and I were debating about something\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n
Feel free to insert whatever topic you want.\u00a0 Women usually love talking about relationships or anything involving emotions\u2026<\/p>\n
\u2026so ask her about what she might think about your buddy\u2019s girlfriend giving him crap for keeping pictures of his ex, for instance.<\/p>\n
Here\u2019s another tip on how to talk to women: watch your body language.\u00a0 Like I told you earlier, even if you have stuff to talk about, part of the conversation has to do with the signals you\u2019re sending out.<\/p>\n
Remember, you don\u2019t want to bring down the atmosphere by looking nervous or needy.\u00a0 Therefore, don\u2019t play with your hands, slouch, lean forward to hear her talk or any other un-alpha stuff that will turn her off.<\/p>\n
Just because you have an urge to do these things doesn\u2019t mean you have to obey it!<\/p>\n
And that\u2019s it for now.\u00a0 Be sure to check this page from time to time for even more articles!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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