{"id":40,"date":"2010-03-03T23:20:22","date_gmt":"2010-03-03T23:20:22","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.meetyoursweet.com\/men\/articles\/?page_id=40"},"modified":"2022-03-18T08:59:00","modified_gmt":"2022-03-18T08:59:00","slug":"dating-strategies","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/www.meetysweet.com\/men\/articles\/dating-strategies\/","title":{"rendered":"Killer Dating Strategies"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Some of the most effective dating tips for men revolve around very basic stuff about generating attraction \u2013 or in some cases, doing the opposite.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">While there\u2019s a lot we can do to win a girl over, there are also plenty of behaviors that will turn her off.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">For instance, lots of guys fall into the trap of befriending a woman in the hopes that things will take a romantic turn somewhere down the line.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">BIG mistake.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">The funny thing about a lot of women is that they have the tendency to quickly classify men either as a harmless, platonic friend\u2026<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">\u2026or the type of guy that\u2019ll make her think, \u201cHmm, maybe this could lead somewhere\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Of course, you know which category you want to fall under.\u00a0 That\u2019s why you\u2019ll need to set the stage by creating an air of romantic tension right from the very start.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">While being a nice guy isn\u2019t a bad thing in itself, it also won\u2019t help your love life either!\u00a0 Being the one she can talk to her problems about or helping her sort out her issues isn\u2019t the path to romance.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Sure, she\u2019ll see you as a friend, but that\u2019s an entirely separate entity from \u201cpotential lover\u201d.\u00a0 I\u2019m not saying you should be crass about showing romantic interest; all you really need to do is get a woman\u2019s mind in that general direction.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">If not, you\u2019re going to have a hell of a time trying to convince her otherwise.\u00a0 Thus, plant little hints of romance in her thoughts instead of acting like her shrink.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Women like to test the waters with a guy by flirting with him.\u00a0 Don\u2019t assume though that it has to be sexual in nature \u2013 girls often flirt through a simple exchange of lighthearted and playful banter.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">This is a very good way to get things off to a romantic start.\u00a0 Be game enough to poke harmless fun at her.\u00a0 It not only lowers her defenses, it also puts those \u201cis he or isn\u2019t he into me\u201d kinds of thoughts in her head.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Believe me, this kind of curiosity often leads to more serious things later on!<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">So don\u2019t bother trying to solve a woman\u2019s problems under the assumption that she\u2019ll fall in love with you later on.\u00a0 She has her friends and family to help her sort that out.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">As for other dating tips for men, you also want to avoid being too wound-up about a woman\u2019s opinion of you.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">You don\u2019t want to behave like a guy who\u2019s crushed because his date from last night didn\u2019t return the hundreds of voicemails he left on her phone.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">This is the type who flips out because she didn\u2019t include a smiley at the end of her text message (Oh, the horror!).<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Basically, he doesn\u2019t realize the importance of backing off just a bit and letting the tension develop.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Instead, he lets his emotions get the best of him and kills the mystery with his overzealousness!\u00a0 As a result, she\u2019ll get turned off by his neediness and look elsewhere.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">In the long run, it pays to play it cool instead of hovering over her like a hawk!<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">All in all, following these two simple dating tips for men will stack the odds in your favor.\u00a0 Remember, the less unpleasant behaviors you have, the easier it\u2019ll be to generate more attraction!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Some of the most effective dating tips for men revolve around very basic stuff about generating attraction \u2013 or in some cases, doing the opposite. 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